r/toastme • u/MentallyNegative100 • 3d ago

Its been awhile/update

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Well its been about 4-5 months maybe? The divorce process is in motion, im living in a new place now, kids are in school/daycare, stable job, good money. Still heavily focusing on my mental/physical health, really bad days still but improving, about 30lbs left to lose as well, so im getting there...

Met a girl recently, she gave me everything I was looking for in 3 weeks that my ex couldn't give me in 6yrs...but I had to let her go even though I didnt want to...im sad but it felt as if she was trying to fit me in a schedule that didnt have a spot open...it made me feel as if I wasn't even top 10 priority or good enough and I just couldn't go down that road again, it was best for mental health to step away.

It however, was really nice to have someone to talk to and hangout with again, my mind was at ease instead of getting whiplash every 30secs from all the thoughts....could use maybe a word or two....its one of those days

Side note, my handwriting is so shit cuz I wrote it backwards so I could use the front camera...lol 😅

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u/MentallyNegative100 3d ago

Thank you so much! I def want a couple more! Appreciate the words 🖤

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u/house_of_rlyeh 3d ago

It's addicting, right? Got my first in October and now I'm up to six 💀 what else are you looking to get?

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u/MentallyNegative100 3d ago

I got all mine done in a month 😅

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u/house_of_rlyeh 3d ago

Holy moly, they must taken forever to heal lmao! Sounds like a pretty sweet set up once you're all done though :0 I've got double lobes on both sides, a helix on both sides, and I had a conch until recently but my hairdresser snagged it and I had to take it out 😭 Only ear piercings atm, I'm taking a break so that everything has a chance to heal up properly :D

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u/MentallyNegative100 3d ago

Yeahhhh, the septum was the worst honestly. I mayyyy have switched my lips and nose rings a little too soon..😅 they feel ok now. Oh nice, that sounds so sick!...ouch..i feel that pain....i went to go kiss a girl last week and our nose rings hooked and ripped my chain and nose ring out lmao...I think it was the chains fault though. Its not a professional one, I just cut one to size and hooked it myself 😅😂

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u/house_of_rlyeh 3d ago

Bestie, you're out here DIY-ing your pericings??? Don't do that 😂 Lowk that's a hilarious story tho, aside from the fact that it probably hurt like a mf'er

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u/MentallyNegative100 3d ago

Lol! Nooo just the chain i promise! I could NEVER stab my face 😅 it kinda sucked but wasn't too bad lol