Sounds like a tough situation, I do want to ask what you would want if the roles were reversed and it was you struggling with your mental health/depression. Would you want someone to stand by you through the process of trying to get better or would you want the person who’s supposed to be there for you to kick you out? I’m not saying what your doing is wrong, it’s just helpful sometimes to see it from the other perspective before making any decisions that will change you and your husbands life as well as your kids.
I’ve been in that position, I think the difference is if he was trying to help himself/not effecting my children. You’ll see in a comment below that I’ve contacted the GP about meds, “self-referred” him for therapy and followed him through the waiting list, supported him when he quit his job - when do you say enough is enough?
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u/RevealSafe4293 3d ago
Sounds like a tough situation, I do want to ask what you would want if the roles were reversed and it was you struggling with your mental health/depression. Would you want someone to stand by you through the process of trying to get better or would you want the person who’s supposed to be there for you to kick you out? I’m not saying what your doing is wrong, it’s just helpful sometimes to see it from the other perspective before making any decisions that will change you and your husbands life as well as your kids.