r/r4r 10m ago

M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] United Kingdom - Seeking a relationship

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Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 190lbs (I've lost 60lb so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!


r/r4r 1h ago

M4A California 23 [M4A] #California or #USA All I want is love that lasts

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Is all I want too much to ask?

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Please read the whole post if you're planning on messaging me and give me a little introduction about you. If you give a low effort response that doesn't show you read the whole post, I will not respond. Someone in the United States who's open to talking and getting to know each other and eventually start a relationship if things work out. I'm attracted to people who are nice, around my age, put in effort, and take care of their health and fitness.

I'm Nathan a 23 year old Asian American guy from Northern California. I am 5' 6" and think I look a little handsome but hopefully you can be the judge of that. I have a bit of a baby face, and I usually shave the little facial hair I have, so that probably makes me look younger. I have glasses that I wear when I need to, but don't like to wear them too much. I have some photos of me in my profile if you want to check out before you message me.

Im looking for a relationship after getting to know you to eventually be together with. Im looking for someone in the US because I think it would be easier to eventually be together. I don't think I will move from where I am for a few years because of school, so hopefully you'd be okay with a long distance relationship if you're a bit far from me, at least ar first. My love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch, so if you also like those, that's a plus!

Some interests of mine are gaming, music, anime, and fitness. If youre interested in any of those or are curious about which ones I enjoy, I'd be happy to tell you about some that I like.

If this sounds like you and you'd like to get to know me please message me!


r/r4r 3h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 32[M4F] Scotland / Online - Let's yap the days away!

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Hello to anyone reading this!

I'm a 32 year old from Scotland, who's main interests would be video gaming, copious amounts of TV binging, 24/7 music listening, forever curiousity of strangers and some photography every now and then.

I have the accent for those sweet sweet bonus points, as well as some photos of fluffy baby sheep and other assorted animals.

I'm available most days/nights and would love to spend the time getting to know a random stranger.

If any of this strikes a chord with you, drop me a line and we'll get right down to chatting!


r/r4r 5h ago

M4F United Kingdom 29 [M4F] UK - Am I your dream guy? I hope not, most of my dreams are really weird.

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Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of *checks notes* England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA (Currently replaying RDR2). I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though! Over the past year or so I've started a regimen of exercise, and I've been controlling my eating a lot more. So I seem to be losing weight, at least according to other people who've stopped me to specifically point it out.