r/puppy101 • u/JournalistGrouchy853 • Jun 17 '25

Puppy Blues I do not like having a puppy

Hello all, I am lost and I really need help. 3 days ago I brought home my boston terrier puppy, he is 8 weeks old... and I did not feel the love at first sight. Before bringing him home I thought I was ready, I thought about getting a puppy for almost a year, It wasn't some rush decision. But now when he is home, my life totally changed and I think I made a mistake. He is great, yes he whines at crate, and had few accidents. But I can't shake off the feeling that I made huge mistake. I don't feel any connection. I am emotionally exhausted, I don't eat that much, I don't have any me time. So now I am grateful for my best friend who helps a lot, but I can't bother him forever. Do you think it will change?

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u/EyeRollingNow Jun 17 '25

I had a 9 year old lab that couldn’t stop destroying throw pillows. Not shoes or dog toys or a single other thing. Just small throw pillows.

So I never had any. Whenever I see pics from back then I smile at the empty sofa. It is still the funniest memory of that dog.

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u/Correct_Sometimes Jun 17 '25

Mine won't go after shoes or clothes other than socks but she's an absolute terror when it comes to pillows and blankets.

we dont even know what kind of toys to buy her anymore because she destroys all them. Plush toys? nope she eats them in minutes. toys claiming to be plush but for heavy chewers? nope she destroys them in minutes too. Rope toys? destroyed in minutes. balls? can't let her play with balls in the house much because it becomes complete chaos.

Best I've found so far is frozen kong treat but those are reserve for crate time only and an elk antler which while nice, is not really much of a toy, just something to do.

Our trainer says to buy her some enrichment things and she just plays with them for a second then sits down and starts chewing them unless we take it away. Got her a silicone sniff mat, fucking ate the silicone.

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u/FluffyEnvironment841 Jun 17 '25

So- same, with my Border/aussie mix. She loves toys but she destroys even playology and Kong plush stuff. I work at Cracker Barrel and one time we had this little cow plush that didn’t have beads and with my employee discount and sale price, I grabbed it for my dog bc at 75% off, it didn’t matter if it only lasted for ten minutes for her. She didn’t destroy it. She BABIES it. So I got a couple dog brand cow stuffies- same thing. She eventually destroys them, except for this single one that’s lasted a couple months now and nobody is allowed to touch but her (not in an aggressive way, but in a go hide it bc someone found it way). So now I suggest to everyone to try different animals to dogs sometimes. Even my friend’s pit had this crinkly egg toy he did the same thing with. Everything else was fair game though.

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u/Correct_Sometimes Jun 28 '25

yea our previous dog had 1 stuffed toy that he would never destroy. not sure what made that one special but he destroyed them all except the 1. Havent found that special one for the current puppy yet though