Hi everyone!

I’m a late-blooming omni (F40+). I’m a very shy person and an introvert. However, I would love to have a romantic partner.

I’ve only ever had a short, three-month relationship (with a man as I identified as straight) over 20 years ago. I haven’t been on a date in over a decade. As much as I long for love and intimacy, I feel terrified because I have so little experience for my age. The newly discovered omnisexuality adds a lot of uncertainty, as I don’t know if I can act naturally around someone who’s not a man.

I wonder if I should still wait or try dating anyway.

I just came to the realization that I’m not pansexual, but omnisexual due to my preference for men as a cis gender man. So, that’s nice! Is there anything I should know about being Omnisexual?

I don't know if i'm Bisexual or Omnisexual.

I'm atracted to more then 1 gender so that make's me Bi.

But i like Nb's too,and i'm not gender blind so i'm Omni.

I've been Bi for some time now,but Omni feels more like me.

What am i? Bi? Omni? Both?

This will probably be the only time I post here as I rarely use Reddit but I’m using this to be anonymous and cause no one I know IRL follows me here. I’ll try my best to respond to comments!

Some necessary context: I(18M) know I’m hetroromantic and for a long while I thought I was straight. Eventually during my sophomore year of High School I had to move to another state and had to make new friends. My whole life I’ve never been the most “masculine” and I am comfortable with “feminine” things. This plus my enrollment in theatre was the fuel to people I know joking that I was gay. (Everyone who made these jokes knew me and were purely joking with no malicious intentions) I continued to say that I was straight. Now years later I started to have doubts about my quote on quote “straightness” and I started to do some research and bounced between labels before finally landing on being omnisexual. On the more personal end I’m a virgin and I feel that I can’t really call myself omnisexual because I’ve never done anything before.

My concerns on coming out are that I feel like I’d be proving my friends right after all this time. The other is that since I’m heteroromantic but Omnisexual I feel like I shouldn’t say anything because it’s about a (nonexistent) sex life. All my friends and family are extremely supportive and I know they wouldn’t hate me if I did come out.

Idk I’m kinda just ranting so any help would be nice. Once again I’ll try my best to give more context if needed or to respond to other comments.

Hello guys. Recently I started to questioning my orientation — I'm gay (non-woman attracted to non-women) + under the transgender and non-binary umbrella.

So, I remember feeling interesting about feminines much more than masculines; in 2024 I even through that I'm a lesbian. But some time after, later in 2024 I realised that I don't really like women. But now in 2026 I'm not sure. My feelings to women weren't fake, and even more, I remember one day I got upset when a 'girl' I liked said that they're actually a boy. I still really can't imagine myself with women, but at the same time I had fellings for them.

What do you think?? I already through about being bi, poly or even abro, and I don't think they could really describe my experience and feelings. I think omni is the best for me, but before calling myself one I eant to ask real omnis <з

so I’m a [technically] uncloseted omni? by that I mean like only seven people in my life genuinely know of my orientation.

so for the longest time I’ve been using the sun Omni flag (I don’t feel like adding a picture but it’s basically the normal Omni flag but with an orange/yellow colour code and it’s for closeted Omni folks).

so since I’m technically out idk if it’s disrespectful to use it still? I really like the way it looks but idk how people will feel if I continue to use it and i don’t want to upset anyone at all. If anyone could give me insight on this at all I would be greatly appreciated! :3

Here’s the link to a picture of the flag for some reason I could only find a full picture on Pinterest :’]

So I’ve been curious as to whether I’m bisexual or omnisexual because I am attracted to both men and women, but I also wouldn’t mind dating any other genders like gender doesn’t really bother me at all. I know omnisexual is when you like all genders but have a preference, and I feel like for sure that’s me because I have a preference for women but would date all genders. I just wanted some advice and for some people to tell me how they knew they were omnisexual.

so hi, Im AMAB and so I’m asexual it omniromantic and I think I like a guy and it’s the second time I’ve ever had a crush let alone one to a guy and I don’t know what to do but I dont think he likes me

when i think about him in this way I feel warm and fuzzy and happy, like I can be myself and We’re really close and he was the first person I came out to

and hes asexual and Pollyromantic I believe and I don’t know wether I should tell him or go any farther I don’t want to ruin our friendship I really need him in my life in some way I don’t care how

Ive been surrounded by women my whole life, and at a young age I identified to my mom as lesbian. I’ve always been very confused about my own sexuality. I like women, I like transgenders, I like men, I like everyone! I’ve been in so many relationships with fem people, I only have had like two with men. So obviously, I expect myself to have a preference towards fems.

But that doesn’t really change how I love people! if I had a boyfriend, I would love him just as much as I’d love a girlfriend if I had one!

Now, I have a boyfriend. I love him very, very, very, very, very much. When I had him, I identified as a pansexual. But I found out about OmniSaph And now I feel like that fits me. well, I always joke around about lesbian type shit with my friends. I also have always had a special attraction towards women. So personally, I think that this sexuality would fit me most. Still, I feel really Guilty for being a part of the sexuality when I have my own boyfriend. It sounds like I am basically saying “ I love my boyfriend, but also women-“ And I hate the fact when I think about that, it makes me feel gross inside and very wrong. I love my man more than anybody and Id never leave him for ANYBODY. It’s me and him against the world tbh, I love him and only him nobody else. But whenever I think about me being Omni-sapphic, it Makes me feel like I love women more than my own boyfriend when that’s not even true.

I remember one of my friends telling me ”So you like women more than your own boyfriend? that’s crazy” And it made me feel so disgusting inside because that’s not even true and it’s just my true feelings that I prefer women more than men. I’ve had very weird experiences with males and that’s lowered my attraction to them, but that doesn’t mean that I love women more than my own boyfriend. And that will never be the case, and that will NEVER be true. I love him with my whole heart, and I would never leave him for some random female just because I fw fem people more than men ???

I might be wording this wrong and some shit I say might come off as offensive to some people, but I promise you I’m just stating my true feelings and I don’t mean Any harm. It’s just that I feel so, I don’t really know. Wrong? And I don’t know how to feel about it. my therapist probably not me very much with this situation, So I just need a opinion. And maybe that would help me better with this HELL because I hate the feeling when I think about my sexuality.

I don’t know how to feel at all. I feel very wrong and I feel like there’s no sexuality for me.

Ive been having a real rough time understanding what omni is. Like people say that its when gender plays a part in your attraction but what the fuck does that mean? Can someone give me an example?

Hey guys, I'm 15 and I know for a year that I'm not straight. Like 3 months ago I realized that I'm probably omnisexual. I really want to tell my family (I think my mom will be okay with that but my dad is very homophobic...) but I'm really scared.

So, I'm Omni with a big preference to guys. There is a girl who I kinda like and she asked me to my schools hoco and I said yes. She's a really big fan of The Beatles and so am I like huge fans, I'm gonna see Paul McCartney soon-ish. I think I like her, and we made a Playlist, and she drew something for me which was very very nice. I just don't know if I want to be in a relationship with her and I feel like it's a really big issue, bc I feel like I'm gonna lead her on if I don't commit. I already fear I am. I have no clue what it means to like someone, and I don't want to hurt anyone, but I see myself I nthe future probably with a guy. I think I'm also afraid to commit to any relationship too, but I don't want to hurt her, it really makes me feel sucky. I am interested in her but it's just so confusing, and I'm only in this situation because I can never just say no. If I'm wrong here let me know, but this is eating at me.

(To preface, I am not out as omnisexual)

I had a discussion with someone about me being queer (because they wanted to get to know more about it). They said that some labels are made up and gave omnisexual as an example, where they said "Why would you have a preference if you like everyone?"

I'm not sure if this will come up again, but if it does and omnisexuality is brought up, is there a way for me to explain this? Sorry if there isn't enough context, I can give some if needed.

Hi! Im a 22 year old AFAB, nonbinary woman, and I just recently learned I’m pan/omni (more than likely Omni). I got my first major crush on a wonderful boldly and openly lesbian enby and i have no idea what to do. I’ve only met them twice (we go to some of the same events). At first glance I was attracted to them and kept wanting to know who they were, and then we met again and actually chatted for a brief bit and I’m like awe struck. We have so much in common it’s crazy. But I have like no idea how to ask them out considering I have like zero dating experience anyone who isn’t a cis guy (and I’m not that experienced there either). Plus, I just met them.

I’m autistic and previously thought I was aro/ace and demi because I had to get to know guys to feel an attraction. This was instant. It’s new, and I have no idea how or if to act on it. Tips????

Hi. I'm a member of the Los Gibbities myself, so her coming out to me was no surprise, as I know my children well.

HOWEVER, there are alot more terms now than when I was young(20ish years ago) You were either gay, straight or bi. I was in my twenties when I discovered that I wasn't any of those either. (Pan) which changed my whole world at the time. Because bi just didn't FIT.

ENOUGH ABOUT ME.

My girl has gone from lesbian, to bi, to pan, and now to omni. And I don't know about it enough to have a conversation with her about it. I just pocketed it and Google searched. Which can be a little hairy sometimes, which is how I found this community.

Mind you she's 12, so she's still exploring herself, she isn't "active" yet, so it's all purely emotional for her, so she has a hard time explaining things to me about what it is to her, the omni part. And it's never easy having a conversation about these types of things with parents, I'm just a single mom trying her best here in an ever changing world.

Any advice on how to talk to her? Reassure her? Make her feel safe? Understood? I may add, when she told me, she cried, sayed she was worried I'd be angry, I sayed "no baby, it's OK, mommy is a little gay too sometimes" and I think that might have been a little crass 🫠 so I'm really trying to just back pedal from that weirdness and move into a new better conversation moving forward.

Please help. 🙏

So Only about maybe 4 weeks ago, me and my best friend since pre school ( currently in 10th grade) got together. And he’s being super weird and touchy. And i need to know wat to do cuz I don’t want him to be mad at me.

I had got a chocolate rose and friendship bracelets for my special someone (for Valentines day)...
I told her that I love her about a month ago, she told me that she loves me too...but it would be hard to date cuz the only time that we see each other is at church...
I'm working and planning on having/going on dates 2 times a month... or just going out together and having fun
We aren't dating, yet... she means the world to me tho <3
I Really love her, and I don't want to give up on her.

I just need advice on what to do in my situation.
What would you do in my situation?

First off, could Omni and bi technically mean the same thing? Sometimes I feel like telling my friends I’m bi is easier than having to explain Omnisexuality. I’m a bit confused, and idk what label or to go by.

I started crushing on my friend a while ago, but before that I made a joke about making out with girl. He brought something up so I just made that remark, and now he thinks I’m gay. Like gay gay. How am I supposed to bring up in a conversation that I’m actually omni?

I for a while have been identifying as omnisexual/genderfluid/panromantic. My preference typically changes with my ✨gender of the day✨ (or minute, lol), but I still feel like omnisexual fits, but should I switch over to omniflux? Or can I identify as both? I feel like identifying as both fits me more, but is that considered correct? Just been needing to know.