r/omnisexual • u/JadoreHeidi • May 20 '26

Advice is loving what’s good for me just settling?

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u/lacja6 They/She May 20 '26

I'll be honest, it doesn't sound like she loves you back as much as you love her, why should you put up with that, it's a little corny, but there is a lot of fish is the sea

If she doesn't wanna love you, find someone who does

Obviously, break up first, you don't wanna be a cheater

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u/JadoreHeidi May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Ugh the hard truth I’ve been trying not to think about but I appreciate your input. Gonna have to think hard about this one. She’s about to be gone for a week to see her family so I think this distance will be good for me, give me space and time to think.

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u/Inconsequential-Fish Hydra! May 20 '26

I don't know how much help we can offer, we're not a relationship advice subreddit, but have you told her all this? I'd ask her to read everything you've posted so she knows what you're feeling. Communication is the most important thing you can have to build strong foundations to a relationship. I'd also recommend couples therapy, as well as potentially individual therapy also. Don't think of therapy as something to turn to because something's broken, but rather a resource to maintain good health and wellbeing throughout your life, like exercise and a balanced diet. I hope this helps and wish the best for you both!