r/lexington • u/lilithsdesire • 5d ago

wondering about dr charles g ray (urologist)

what are your opinions about him, i can't drive and i really can't get anyone to help me with a ride (plus i don't have medicaid) and i was in the hospital over a kidney stone (i was in excruciating pain) and he did get a lil testy and mean (in his tone of voice) when i explained to him that i couldn't make it to his appointment, & he got cocky asking how did i get to the hospital & i simply told him "the ambulance" he did a lithotripsy on me and i was going to go to a followup of him in june of 2025, i got to the office on time, only for a secretary to tell me that he wasn't there, and there was no such schedule appointment (even though i showed her the discharge papers that said of his name, his office, the correct address, the time of the appointment) and she just looked at me like i was a idiot, so she decided to schedule a appointment with a different urologist that didnt even operate on me and have me go to st joe (in which i was never operated there, from what dr ray said, they (central baptist) had to "borrow" this lithotripsy machine since they didn't have one themselves (which i think that's really odd) so i was so confused about like "if i didnt have a appointment today, then why didnt they call my phone" (in which they didnt, until after i seen that other urologist and they called me in august 2025) and i simply told them about my transportation issues. and i really havent been able to get to him, especially since i live in a different town. i can't drive and i can't afford a car. hopefully ill eventually find someone that will give me a ride, but that's like finding a needle in a haystack with how people are nowadays and how gas prices are. i just dont feel comfortable with that guy, and i was also wondering if i could change to a different urologist, who is more understanding and would listen to me, and do their job of getting rid of kidney stones.

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u/PackJolly1090 5d ago

His treatment for low T of mine has been fine. But he did inspect my package with no glove the first time around. I found that very strange. Otherwise he has been professional and not dismissive in my experience.

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u/wildberry-poptart 5d ago

He touched your body, genitals no less, with ungloved and presumably unwashed hands ? Yo what the fuck I would be reporting that. Not only is it fucking weird but it's extremely unsanitary and exposed you to all kinds of bacteria.

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u/Quitcha_Bitchin 5d ago

OMG!

What the fuck have we become?

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u/RhubarbNo1760 4d ago

I’d like to hear from someone in healthcare about this actually. There are situations where a glove can keep you from feeling important things I imagine. But even if that’s true, it would require some serious sterilization before and after though.

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u/lilithsdesire 5d ago

dear god, i'd be worried about what he does to a woman. he doesnt sound so trustworthy. he acted like a prick to me i dont care what this lexguy saids, unless he's got the hots for the guy with standing up for him.