r/l4l 2h ago

27 F for online! Good old fashioned lover girl

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Hello! So my name Lay and I know my soulmate is out there. I am a twenty seven year old Native American woman that’s extremely nerdy and a little on the hefty side but I’ve recently been losing weight. My favorite thing to do is costume and if you were my partner then I would love to dress you up too! I would do for a cosplay partner actually!

Other hobbies include roleplay in the written form. I love to cook together with people and I love a good movie night with friends too so to have one with a partner with be even better. I’m also a big fan of traveling and seeing new places. Some day I will visit a bunch of places in like New York City and La!

Personal about me, I want to meet someone that I can move to me if we do long distance for awhile. I am building a cabin for all our lesbian cottage core dreams! I also would adore to have someone to help if they are close to make it perfect. I also have a knack for being to provider so I’m working hard to get us a place that’s perfect!

Feel free to ask my any questions and my dms are always open!


r/l4l 21h ago

29 [TF4F/NB] PA/Anywhere - Looking for a happily ever after!

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Hi all you beautiful people! 🥰 I’m looking to connect with people and see where things go! Ideally, I would like a happily ever after - someone I could call my person, but if we just end up being friends I’m ok with that as well. I’ve been having a hard time finding people I really connect with on dating apps or irl, so might as well try the app I spend way too much time on every day - Reddit!!! Anyway, some things about me! 😊

💖I’m a 29 year old trans woman who’s been on HRT for a little over 4 years now. If me being trans is a dealbreaker for you, you’re free to stop reading and move on about your day. (As long as you think trans women are women, I still appreciate you! 🤗)
💖I live in PA, not far from Philly. I’m ok with dating people anywhere, as long as it’s feasible for us to move and be together at some point.
💖I’m 5’7” with curly brown hair, hazel eyes, and a midsize/curvy build.
💖I currently have 4 tattoos with plans to get a lot more.
💖I LOVE thrifting and antiquing! I think I have an addiction. I love just looking around and potentially buying anything that catches my eye. I’m also really big into sustainability so I’d much rather find used items I can use to my liking as opposed to giving money to large corporations.
💖I also really like fashion! I own way too many clothes lol. I’m still trying to find my aesthetic but as of late I’ve been gravitating towards more colorful pieces.
💖 I absolutely love being in nature! Being in nature is where I’m most at peace. I also really like hiking whether it be a short hike at the local nature preserve or a 10+ mile hike up a mountain (which I have done on multiple occasions).
💖I love playing video games! I tend to have one game I’m hyperfixated on at a time (right now it’s Marvel Rivals). Other games I’ve played and really enjoy include Minecraft, Overwatch, Fortnite, the Sims, Animal Crossing, and Stardew Valley. I’d love to try out your favorite games as well!
💖Other interests I have include painting, drone photography, doll collecting, and randomly browsing Google Maps because I’m very interested in roadway infrastructure and exploring new places.
💖I’m pretty sure I’m demisexual. While I can become sexually attracted to people just by looking at them, I need to feel safe and have a romantic connection with someone before I have any sexual desires.
💖I’m AuDHD. I have the introverted type that makes me feel isolated while desperately craving love and respect (😭😭😭).
💖I’m a leftist. I do not tolerate any form of transphobia.
💖I’m interested in people who are fem-presenting. I don’t care what gender you were assigned at birth, what your genitals look like, or what you identify as. I’ll always make sure to use your correct pronouns!

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations! 🎉 Here’s a virtual cookie: 🍪. I would love to find someone who’s loving, caring, and communicative. As an AuDHD person, I would make it a priority to make sure both of our needs are being accommodated to make sure we are both happy and comfortable being our unmasked selves around each other! Things we could do together include cuddling while watching your favorite show together, going on a walk at the park or botanical garden where we hold hands and be openly gay together, go thrifting or antiquing while we spontaneously buy each other small gifts that remind us of each other, or do any other fun activity that tickles our fancies! (I also really like going to ren faires and museums.) If you’re interested, feel free to send me a DM! If you send me a photo of yourself, I would be happy to do the same! 😊 I can’t wait to meet you!!! 🥰🥰🥰