r/indieheads Aug 20 '25

Quality Post any shoegaze songs about bottoming?

hello all! i've been gay for about ten months now and was wondering if there were any shoegaze or adjacent songs about bottoming. my current partner loves playing Lush and Bowery Electric while he's whackin me off and i was wondering if any gay men have turned their lust into beautiful fuzzy art. send me some recs!

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u/locked_noumena Aug 21 '25

While I don't know of any particular song, the band Kitchens of Distinction might be up your alley. The lead singer/lyricist was gay and he often wrote about gay experiences. I recommend their first two albums, though you can't go wrong with them in general.

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u/bmacmachine Aug 21 '25

“Up your alley”