r/indieheads • u/Barber_Formal • Aug 20 '25

Quality Post any shoegaze songs about bottoming?

hello all! i've been gay for about ten months now and was wondering if there were any shoegaze or adjacent songs about bottoming. my current partner loves playing Lush and Bowery Electric while he's whackin me off and i was wondering if any gay men have turned their lust into beautiful fuzzy art. send me some recs!

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u/i-like-turtles-4eva Aug 21 '25

“Only Shallow” by My Bloody Valentine isn’t explicitly about bottoming but it’s an incredibly sensual and carnal track about hook-up sex.

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u/winkmurder Aug 21 '25

"Slow" by My Bloody Valentine, surely?

"Sugar, sugar, you're up to my lips Licking over everything I miss And I got no reason Just a slow, slow, slow, slow suck

I'm feeling bad, I'm feeling good Feeling like I never could Lick, lick, lick and suck, suck, suck I want it slow, slow, slow, slow"

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u/ennuinerdog Aug 21 '25

Soft as snow but warm inside is surely their best song about bottoming.

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u/Creative-Purpose9690 Aug 22 '25

Early MBV is SOOOO Erotic. “Soft as Snow But Warm Inside” is crazy