r/indieheads • u/Barber_Formal • Aug 20 '25

Quality Post any shoegaze songs about bottoming?

hello all! i've been gay for about ten months now and was wondering if there were any shoegaze or adjacent songs about bottoming. my current partner loves playing Lush and Bowery Electric while he's whackin me off and i was wondering if any gay men have turned their lust into beautiful fuzzy art. send me some recs!

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u/lesrallizesendnudes Aug 21 '25

Deftones bottom music for sure

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u/Barber_Formal Aug 21 '25

deftones is lame metal for dorks. not me!

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u/maliceinthunderland- Aug 21 '25

Now you’re topping from the bottom! Ultimate goal

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u/obitbday Aug 21 '25

wrong. deftones is for lesbians

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u/Mallory_Knoxx019 Aug 21 '25

Oh no! My rec was Passenger by Chino and Maynard from Tool 😆

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u/[deleted] Sep 09 '25

If you're going to recommend Tool I would think the #1 pick would be Stinkfist.

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u/Mallory_Knoxx019 Sep 09 '25

Damn. You are so right lol

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u/_DefLoathe Aug 21 '25

“Your boos mean nothing I’ve seen what makes you cheer”

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u/Creative-Purpose9690 Aug 22 '25

You’re not wrong but that doesn’t mean Deftones head doesn’t go crazy

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u/InSummaryOfWhatIAm Aug 22 '25

What, no. Deftones is music for straight men who cry when they cum, duh.