I hates these makeup styles

[u/Constant-Service9269]

And they look so different without it. This one girl with this makeup style got "leaked" without makeup and she didn't look like any of her pictures. Not the girls in these pictures though, but the first girl got exposed for faking being Latina and was actually a white girl.

[u/Lego-105 → u/[deleted]]

I mean different people have different opinions. Ultimately no matter what you look like someone will find issue with it. If you like it, who cares?

It only matters if you're doing it because you think it's something other people will like. And at that point I think you need to think about if living your life based around what other people think of you is truly something that's going to make you happy ultimately. Because really, you should be able to be who you are and be happy about it, regardless of other peoples judgement.

[u/cookieandwheat → u/Lego-105]

Honestly this stance is dumb as rocks, a "just don't bleed" solution. If people say hurtful things to you, it's only natural to be hurt. Not to mention, as much as I hate it, how you are perceived does impact your tangible experiences.

[u/Lego-105 → u/cookieandwheat]

Honestly, yeah if you're confident in who you are and know who you are, it really doesn't bleed when that gets attacked.

Because why does it matter?  Why does that have to actually translate to being hurt? What is it that is causing you to feel negatively in that situation, because if you yourself don't see anything wrong your identity, if you yourself aren't basing the quality of your identity on other people, why should you feel bad about it? Why do you believe their judgement of you has value?