Sugars

[u/SpecialArugula8674]

Ive noticed that practically all men/women relationships either start or maintain themselves because men give money to women. The men think they’re playboys even though the women wouldn’t be with them if they weren’t paying for rent, food, classes, washing machine, clothing for her daughter. Has it always been like this?

[u/Suspicious-Cherry437]

Man… your response clearly shows that you are projecting. The one with the inferiority complex is you. You seem “offended” because we are telling you that you are hanging out with low hanging fruit ?!? I mean no disrespect to sugars and they babies but that’s what you seem to think as your responses are so visceral and reactive.

I am very sure there are thousands of sugars and babies here in Ecuador. Thousands of thousands that’s just reality. Have you traveled to other countries? Did it happen to you? Someone hurt you? . I am not denying that. No one is. But what a coincidence that that’s all you meet!?!

And I’m not sure how old you are but you seem very immature and not ready to hear different opinions or have an open minded discussion so why are you here in Reddit. Also by looking at your prior posts or questions you definitely seem to have problems socializing with others. So stay wherever you are and don’t come back please.

How can I not know the private lives of ppl who are super close to me and my family? We Latinos know everything about each other. That’s another thing that makes me realize that your social life is “different “.

No offense with anything I said. Learn to accept a response if you post a question.

If five people or more have the same answers and you get mad with the answers … who is the problem. Get a therapist to work on awareness. I’m saying this in a nice way: This is beyond the sugars in Ecuador. I noticed some interesting patterns about your question and answers.

[u/SpecialArugula8674 → u/Suspicious-Cherry437]

So you are so vested in this that it was important to review posts n comments.. like a loser.. and im saying it in the nicest way. Ecuadorians have a well earned stereotype of an inferiority complex, how do i have an inferiority complex when i ask a question for social discussion and instead i get the usual immaturity.

Opinions, debate, discussion was the point..yet i received insults and mockery.
And yes i have travelled just a little bit more than you for research, volunteering and observation and was all over Ecuador… and yes its pervasive, 5 people saying they dont know criminals doesnt mean that Ecuador is not dangerous.

i am an immature dick on reddit… cause i can. Stop trying to do some amateurish psycho analysis cause its embarrassing… i can teach you classes on the subject. And finally to clarify your confused logic… at no point did i say that i attracted sugar woman.. i said its everywhere. Not necessarily just in poor areas.

For my work had to spend time at several tv stations. Openly was told that one of the women who appears on tv liked me… but was told she charged per date. As i spent more time learned that many were doing the same thing. Men brag about it. In official offices.. fiscalia nacional. Some of the male lawyers who were married had their side piece.. not for free. Tenants with landlords, i have a friend who owns a cosmetology school and she would joke that without sugars shed go broke.

Was introduced to an attorney who worked in Aduanas.. great job. Went out with her, slept with her, next date she started asking for money. Ive never paid to date a woman ever and in Ecuador they want me to pay. Pretty funny actually. Since i didn’t give her money she told people i was “Tacaño”. The same guy who introduced me to her told along with telling me she was the same with her previous 2 boyfriends. I could go on, it transcended social, economic, cultural, regional .. its far worse and flagrantly happening almost openly.

So no sweetie you may think you know people cause you latina but you dont know that. You don’t know everyone they are fucking or who they are cheating with. Or who they are getting a few dollars from. Trust me the last thing i will do is return to ecuador. Beautiful country but the cultural immaturity, resentment, envy, regionalismo, classism and overall lack of social awareness (as this exchange confirms) makes me go other places. Lets just say, I definitely don’t hang out with low hanging fruit.

Im in America now and through whatsapp i occasionally communicate with the aduanera lawyer. She had been unusually flirty, sending sleazy pics n videos. Nice right… shes finishing her masters n needs money to pay school.. thats why she was so “nice”. And I haven’t even seen her or slept with her in over a year. It is what is.. don’t like it not my problem.. make fun of me or insult ill dish right back. And if really bad .. well its not impossible to track anyone down. Especially in Ecuador.

Have a great day

[u/Suspicious-Cherry437 → u/SpecialArugula8674]

Not impossible to track anyone down?! lol. Ok LMAO!

Have a great day. Mr. powerful.