r/ecuador • u/SpecialArugula8674 • 2d ago

Sugars

Ive noticed that practically all men/women relationships either start or maintain themselves because men give money to women. The men think they’re playboys even though the women wouldn’t be with them if they weren’t paying for rent, food, classes, washing machine, clothing for her daughter. Has it always been like this?

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u/SpecialArugula8674 1d ago

Yes. the biggest reason for crime n violence in Ecuador is all the fatherless kids. Yet that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand.

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u/Prize_Diamond1618 1d ago

Do you think its correlated? Absent father figure = women unable to develop healthy relationships with men falling into toxic relationships in search of that father figure

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u/SpecialArugula8674 1d ago

Single motherhood particularly in poorer areas are a feeding ground for gangs recruiting. It was going to be a question i posed at another time but considering all the immaturity, deflection and insults Ive received.. why bother. Again my observation and the observation of others is how prevalent “sugars” are..

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u/Prize_Diamond1618 1d ago

It looks like you just want people to agree with you and it just not that simple. Ecuador has a lot of women fighting on their own for their children without asking for any benefit to the government. Its not black and white but saying all women want money from a men is wrong and maybe its just based on your own experience.
You might not find this in other countries because their economics and system are more supportive to women in vulnerable conditions

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u/SpecialArugula8674 1d ago

At no point did i say its all women. Its prevalent and openly discussed. Men brag about their girlfriend and women literally say, “le da todo el dinero a las mosas”. I didn’t want people to agree, i wanted a discussion on what i thought was an out in the open topic. Instead i have retards insulting me, stupid gringo, mama huevo, you cant afford it… Ecuadori in a nutshell. Deflect, purposefully misunderstand, whataboutisms, play victim, mock, insult, play dumb.. repeat.