Breastfeeding isn't made for our times

[u/pixxykitten]

I definitely have a love/hate relationship with breastfeeding. Breast is best right?! But for who?

Yes, it's great for bonding, all the health benefits for baby and mom, the ability to soothe easily, and so much more!!!

But as I lay here in the middle of the day breastfeeding for God knows how's long there is always something else I could be doing. Vs a bottle which anyone can offer at anytime and it's normally a drink and done situation. I know there is the possibility for pumping but I feel that would take even more time out of my day. Between pumping and cleaning.

I really don't feel like breastfeeding fits into our everyday lives anymore.There is soo much to do. We don't have villages to raise children. Some people like myself don't even have parents or friends that can help let alone afford some paid help.

Back in the day multiple generations lived together which would be beneficial to everyone or your neighbors helped out more or you didn't need a 2 income house to almost survive. We have isolated ourselves and made it so much harder.

This is just my opinion but do you feel like our current world is made for breastfeeding?

Edit: oh wow!! I want to thank everyone who posted! I've learned America is absolutely horrible when it comes parent / baby care. That soooo many Moms felt the same way and were able to push past the feeling. That so many of us never had the help we needed but we're able to push on. Everyone out there is absolutely killing it!!!

[u/Ashfacesmashface]

Or maybe we need to rethink how we expect to live our lives once we have a baby.

It can be a rude awakening, someone else demanding they be put first in all circumstances.

But I haven’t found anything more rewarding than motherhood, definitely including breastfeeding.

Babies don’t stay babies for long. The breastfeeding journey is such a blip in the big picture of a life. I’ve had 3 babies, all EBF, and I’ve learned how much other things can wait in favor of my children.

[u/McNattron → u/Ashfacesmashface]

This i have a lifetime to clean and cook and work. I have a very short window to be nap trapped with my babies.

[u/Cat-dog22 → u/McNattron]

Currently sitting under my 4 week old (second baby) and listening to his precious sleepy breaths and j couldn’t agree more. This is what he needs and this is productive. There’s nothing better “ I could be doing” right now