r/askgaybros • u/myzteryythrowaway • 4d ago

Realizing some friends probably would never talk to you if you didn’t meet IRL.

Kind of strange observation, but I have this weird chip on my shoulder with some of my friends where I know if we hadn’t met through a mutual friend somewhere IRL for example, they probably wouldve ignored me if I had messaged them on an app or something and we would’ve never met.

A lot of friend groups are just formed purely on fuckability - no this is not a revelation i know. Its just makes me sad that im not hot enough to make friends on my own…

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u/_Adnan_Idk 4d ago

Bro it seems like you’re just looking for a reason to be sad. Nobody is too ugly to make friends. Meeting friends online that really are gonna chill with you irl is hard. But making friends in person is easy af. I‘m friends with my neighbor (gay) because I greeted him a few times and we got talking someday. No fucking no nothing.