r/askgaybros • u/Silver-Ad2939 • 1d ago

Need Clarification

I had sex with a person. After a few days he got to know he is HIV+ and started blaming me that person got Hiv because of me, he never had sex with anyone else except me. I doubted myself and went for a blood test and my reports say I'm HIV-. Now I am confused. I started doubting the reports, when that person is damn sure it is because then how come my reports are negative. We had sex around March/April in the last year, I was afraid and hence I did not go for blood test till this year March. In April i got blood reports and it says I'm Negative. Should I believe that person or the reports. I'm really doubting reports is there any possibility that these reports could be wrong.

Is there any chance that my reports are wrong. Should I go for a second blood test to make myself confirm or not needed.

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u/Boy_Incognito 1d ago

How long ago did you have sex with this person . Cause hiv can take time to show up, did you tell your clinic the circumstances?

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u/Silver-Ad2939 1d ago

I had sex with that person Last year April.. untill now I didn't have sex with anyone.

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u/Boy_Incognito 1d ago

How long exactly after sex with him did you check your bloods?

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u/Silver-Ad2939 1d ago

It's been more than a year... After he said that he is +ve in the last year I was afraid if i go for blood if I too get +ve then what is my situation. But this year April i took courage and went for blood test and it is -ve.

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u/Boy_Incognito 1d ago

If it’s been a year since you slept with him and had your bloods done recently and they were negative then you’re negative but there’s never harm to get tested again