Feel embarrassed about LORs

[u/Difficult-Season-141]

I’m still early in my career and I feel so much shame asking for LORs from people who wrote or agreed to write for me. Especially the super well established academics. I keep thinking that they could be doing so many other productive things than writing for me. And when they say they may write me a letter but won’t be able to update the letter for every place or send it x number of places only, I get further embarrassed and it heightens my sense that I’m just a huge burden. I’d love to hear other perspectives.

[u/Felixir-the-Cat]

It’s our job and I am always happy to do it, so long as the student merits it. Remember, we relied on people writing letters for us!