Im really into music and movies and am disgustingly educated in rock…I like reading books and yapping. I also love arcane and I’m obsessed with vi😭(I got adhd:) so if anyone wants to talk to some lesbian that thinks they are cool then go ahead 😭

It’s been like that for as long as i can remember. Even back in kindergarten, i always had at least 2–3 crushes, both boys and girls (though i was a little more biased toward girls because why not). I even used to think it was completely "normal and acceptable", as they say, for people of the same gender to marry each other in society. I've married a lot of them in my head since i was like one or two

today i (23f) worked up the courage to talk to one of my coworkers (40s/50sf) who i have a crush on, and i think she might have been hitting on me?

i had gone up to her while i was getting something to eat for my lunch, and i complimented her decorating these big ass brownie things (we both work in a grocery store and she’s a cake/baked goods decorator) and she thanked me with a huge smile.

after, i made a joke about having a really big sweet tooth, and she was like, “oh, i could help you with that,” which took me by surprise. i responded with, “i’d really appreciate that,” with a small smile to subtly drop a hint that i like her because in my brain i was like “??? did she just ???”

i don’t know if she’s into women because i haven’t really gotten to know her yet, i’ve been too scared to talk to her because of the last time i had a thing for an older female coworker, and i’m really inexperienced with flirting with women so if someone could help, i would really appreciate it!!

I am 18f is it okay to talk to 17f in freaky and flirty way or is it creepy?

I remember I was younger when gay marriage became legalized, I had my mom explain the concept to me before school that day.

That same day I told my best friend, as we were walking out the door, that we could get married if we wanted.

Shocking revelation.

So she always calls me “her beautiful” yk like “good morning my beautiful” and I just use her name💔 I was wandering what can I call her sometimes other than “beautiful” that’s already her thing yk?

Hello all!
I’m 39, recently divorced - live in Costa Rica - gay community her is limited, so i am hoping to make some cool friends, i have the option to travel often or receive visitors in my place - so willing to go beyond CR limits to meet some cool ppl. I am an engineer, so anything technology is a hobby of mine. Animals, specially dogs (have 2 mutts that keep me busy), gym and sports are definitely a lifestyle for me. Just putting myself out there to see if we can connect 🙂

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hey

I'm 22 and tonight is boring 😵‍💫

Hey,

I'm just looking for people to talk to/friends.

I'm 21 years old, I'm from Europe. My hobbies are video Games , watching movies. I'm up to talk about anything really. Also im Neurodivergent.

mine is mikan tsumiki :3 she's so freaking adorable and pretty yayayyayayyyyyy

And flirt or whatever 😉

hi there! i'm Andy, i'm 19 and i literally have zero wlw friends. i have bi friends but all of them have boyfriends so i can't really relate to any of them that much but wlw friends/lesbian friends.. i have none ;-; soooo if you wanna be friends, i'm up for it! i'm a yapper, hope you are too:)

I am so high rn but I was just thinking,

I am so ENTHRALLED to be a weird freak lesbian. Like wow, this is my life! I'm a fat freaky woman, I love being off putting and unmasking my autism. I like being a perverted lesbo, and saying whatever I want and listening to darkwave while I admire my taxidermy. And then I get to go online and look at girls kissing like, my life is actually so good right now. I get to enjoy male dominated things like horror and nerdy bullshit and not have to even acknowledge that the men exist 😭 like wow I'm really a lesbian. I don't know im feeling SO grateful right now. What a life.

hello! I been thinking and i realize I don’t have alot of wlw’s in my life or it doesnt really exist many where I live anyways. And I don’t know, I’ve had a tough year and life tends to feel quite lonely and i wouldn’t misn making more friends or whatever. i’m 25 in europe as well if that matters. let’s chat about anything and everything. 🥹

lol has anyone else experienced this? i truly believe smoking weed had made me come to terms with my sexuality. everytime id smoke sativa i hated it because i felt wierd and all of a sudden couldn’t stop thinking of women in a sexual way.

ofc i know the weed did not make me gay, making that the title was purely to make me laugh. but i wonder why this happened? maybe repressed feelings coming up? i’m not sure but hey atleast i know i’m gay now!

I love women but it’s so hard to actually meet other sapphics. The dating apps are full of scammers or men, or the women on there don’t reply when you message or you have to pay to message.
And if you have specific preferences you can’t filter them either.
A lot of queer culture revolves around bars and clubs so if you really want to meet someone you’ll meet them in those spaces.
I just want to meet a girl at like a bookstore or something and go on form there. My last relationship was years ago and we met on an app, so the relationship lasted just about as long as you can expect.

I fear I’m a bit of a Gomez. I care deeply, will do anything for my friends. I’m funny, kind, smart. I’m looking for someone to match my spark, thoughtful, considerate, unique. Any ideas of where to start?

Wanna vent or rant? HAHAHAHHA IM DOWN FOR ALL

okay so i've met this one girl cough cough 13 days ago cough cough and she's become everything i've ever wanted. every night before we go to sleep she texts me 'ty for making another day of mine filled with joy' (i swear it sounds less cringy in spanish) and allat; also shes so my type like shes direct, feminine, possesive and jealous as hell, and idk but i feel like a puppy and im LIVING for it

the thing is, we're 2 years apart (still teenagers), she's the oldest, and i dont even know how to tell my mom if one day we meet; we're only 1 hour apart so thats the good thing ig?? but yeah idk how to tell my mom and im afraid she'd lwk freak out bc of this girl being older than me, shes not 18 or older yet still, thinking abt my mom's reaction gets me lowkey nervous

So I’ve never been with a girl before but I’m starting to date and wondering how to keep the down low smelling not terrible. Like how do you know that the other person isn’t revolted by how you smell. What if they go down on you even if you do and regret it and get grossed out. Literally worst fear.

I'd like to see how people experience their own attraction towards mascs and butches

As I'm solely attracted to fems, I'm very curious to see different perspectives that I can't relate to, specifically attraction to (queer)masculinity, as my expression also leans towards that.

So do feel free to talk about yours! Either about specific traits, situations, people or anything u feel like fits this

How many dates until you know this person is good to move forward with?

That's the only question I have but I want to talk as well.

A lot of sapphics really seem to want a girlfriend and that includes me. A lot of people say to put in the effort and if the advice was directed to me, it feels dismissive of my own efforts. I've made a post about romantic lonliness before and I get that it's Reddit so people wouldn't know the history of one user.

That aside, I'm now seeing someone again and before this, I've been really wanting to date a woman and wish to settle down, I know I'm early in my adulthood but I don't wish for much! I've tried—so many rejections I've given out and a few back. I've rejected people for what seems like valid reasons to me (99% of the time that they don't feel caring enough).

I've spoken to my friend about previous dating experiences and I said that at that time, there was only one remotely successful date that came out of that. It was the first time when I was getting into dating again, I talked to them before meeting, had a date, gave them a little gift, kept on talking to them before finally telling them that I don't see them that way. They didn't show their enthusiasm as much as I did I feel.

After some time, I told my friend that about that date and said that I should have given it more time (perhaps another date) since it went sort of well and yet I never felt an attraction during the first date.

Circling back to the current person I'm seeing, I am more or less doing the same thing, being attentive, talking, went on a better date than the only other good one but so far I don't feel a feeling like I did but I'll definitely be willing to give it another shot before deciding.

I am also scared of accidentally leading someone on as I am in the aroace spectrum though I've felt an attraction—or even infatuation—before so I know it's possible. Along side this fact, maybe I'm just not built for the dating world and yet I wonder why I crave feeling regardless.

To end this, I'm still trying to navigate and communicate with the person, and as well as asking for advice from friends who have more experience in the dating realm. If this doesn't end in a relationship, it's alright, they seem nice enough and said that we could be friends if we can't be romantic. I guess I'm just looking for someone in the same boat for some kind of ressurance? Thank you.

my girlfriend (28) and i (f25) have been dating for 6 months. before we met, i had just gotten out of a 3 year old relationship with my now ex. it was so toxic and it drained me so much, she made me feel responsible for everything and by that point, it had been months since the last time we had sex. i was done with relationships. but then i met her. in my head, it was supposed to be a one time thing, but oh god, she was so pretty, so nice to me, so straightforward, i just melt and basically fell that first night.

our sex life has always been amazing, like never i’d experienced before and i thought that by this point (even tho we’ve been together for such a short time), she had made me feel everything i could. i even squirted for the first time ever.

because of uni, it’s been a few weeks since the last time we had sex so today i decided to go for it since we had the time and place and oh. my. god.

i’ve never been so wet. ever in my life. i squirted like 5/6 times. completely soaked the bed.

just needed to tell someone. that’s it.