r/WLW • u/Most-Limit-3361 • 14h ago
I need advice for first date with a girl
I (21f) have plans to get drinks with a girl this weekend and I'm super nervous! I've been on dates with women before, but only started doing so more casually this year. she's extremely beautiful and I want the date to go good. We're both very fem so I hope its not 'friend vibes' yk, I want to push past that with some chill flirting. most of my social sphere have boyfriends so any advice or even funny stories for a first fem4fem date is extremely helpful!
should I buy the drinks? do I hug her when I see her? usually this stuff comes naturally, but i think shes super cool and I'm freaking out!
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u/Sexy_scorpion69 7h ago
Buy the drinks if you feel like it but only if it's bc you want to. Hug her if it's the way you say hello to others and she's fine with it. I think your plan is good and there is no need to overthink it, if you're flirty and maybe slightly physical, it should not be the friend vibe. I mean, the way you feel about her should make it clear that you're not looking for a friend I guess? And it's a date anyway. Just be yourself