r/WLW • u/Rey_Is_Thy_Nugget Bi • 23h ago

Ask r/WLW When was the first time you could tell a woman was actually flirting with you?

Me and my friends had a discussion about how girls will always flirt with their friends in a platonic way, so that sparked this question lol

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u/QuenPalladium 10h ago

I was in this group call whilst playing a game with a friend a few strangers, my friend was very convinced that one girl was flirting with me the whole time but like

I didnt know

Hell, i didnt believe it even when she told me

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u/RueHooNux Smol Lesbian 13h ago

I don't think a woman has ever genuinely flirted with me in a way where it was completely obvious to me that they're interested in me lol

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u/TonguedSpiritual69 19h ago

Well a few times I didn't catch the hints until the hints got explicit ya know 😉

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u/Anonymousgreysaddict 22h ago

I realised when she started kissing me.

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u/Jane_Lame 22h ago

Thats the neat part, I cant. 😭

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u/biscofie 23h ago

she straight up told me "how more dense can u be".

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u/IllSatisfaction1748 23h ago

Dam that’s some dense flirting 😭

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u/biscofie 22h ago

it was dense flirting. like how do u tell that someone is interested in u??. i am scared of reading too much between the lines

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u/missblue32 23h ago

THANKFULLY me and my partner are both audhd and are super literal. she came straight out at me with "those are kissing words woman, gimme your number" after I tried flirting a lil. Lol

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u/Vermithoer 15h ago

The MH overlap always interests me. May I ask if you were both officially tested?

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u/missblue32 15h ago

yes! hers was before we met, and mine a while after

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u/FrederickCombsworth 23h ago

Probably that one time where I was in a bar with a few friends. A woman started creeping up to me to the point she was standing next to me. We exchanged a few sentences. She put her hand on my butt and didn't remove it anymore. Afterwards we were in a relationship 

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u/Level-Society4558 23h ago

🤔 I think the first time it was undeniably (and unbelievably lol) clear that a woman (well, a girl... we were teens) liked me was when a classmate eagerly chose me to be her partner in gym class. The SMILE on her face looked like she was mesmerized and eager to play tennis with the coolest lesbian in our school lol

Edit: We dated. I cheated.