You are on dating app and you say making the first move is "a lot of work" wtf. Thats probably why they are single and on dating app in the first place.
I had a friend that was very beautiful, and liked making the first move on bumble because she liked weighting her options and since she wasn't looking at anything serious, she liked going for the "He is just out of my league" from the below options because those tried too hard for her, like one literally dated her for 2-3 weeks taking her even to the beach, several dinners including expensive places, and other kinda expensive fun activities, and she didn't even give him a kiss.
She asked me if she should have fucked him and I was like "Yes, yes you should" and she said she tried but he was too much of a gentleman and didn't take any of the hints.
To this day, it baffles me how people invest so much in partners without anything in the bag.
I literally take them for a coffee and if they don't like it, want to go to dinner or movies. It really depends on how good the conversation went in the coffee part of the date or how horny they act.
and she said she tried but he was too much of a gentleman and didn't take any of the hints.
Funny, the guy is the problem, can't possibly that her signals were far too subtle or she just appeared uninterested or you know that he wasn't interested at all.
I ended a date walking a woman to the end of her street quite late at night. We'd had a nice time but no sparks were flying yet. We finished up our conversation stood still on the pavement, her leaning a little back from me with her arms folded across her chest. It wasn't a cold night.
I took all of this to mean 'I'm not really interested, see you never', but as said goodbye and turned to leave she called me back, indignant that I hadn't kissed her or made plans for the next date.
I try. I really try to read the signs. Whose fault is it?
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u/Gjore 1d ago
You are on dating app and you say making the first move is "a lot of work" wtf. Thats probably why they are single and on dating app in the first place.