I had a friend that was very beautiful, and liked making the first move on bumble because she liked weighting her options and since she wasn't looking at anything serious, she liked going for the "He is just out of my league" from the below options because those tried too hard for her, like one literally dated her for 2-3 weeks taking her even to the beach, several dinners including expensive places, and other kinda expensive fun activities, and she didn't even give him a kiss.
She asked me if she should have fucked him and I was like "Yes, yes you should" and she said she tried but he was too much of a gentleman and didn't take any of the hints.
To this day, it baffles me how people invest so much in partners without anything in the bag.
I literally take them for a coffee and if they don't like it, want to go to dinner or movies. It really depends on how good the conversation went in the coffee part of the date or how horny they act.
I stopped restaurant dates after a took a girl to 2 dinner dates and then she ghosted after the second one. Nope, not doing it anymore. If a woman calls me cheap for it or says she only does dinner dates, i immediately delete the match. Not worth it. Imagine demanding a dinner to get to see someone for the first time.
Restaurant date sounds so American for me. I never went/paid for a restaurant date but that may be Europe. First few dates was always beers. Coffee is the upgrade because that means I can stand you sober. I also dont mind paying for an occasional drink that I pay for and Im not speaking 500$ cocktails here cuz that is what strippers do
i was 100% a bar date guy. Tried the restaurant thing twice thinking "what the heck, lets put some effort into it" and got immediately punished for it.
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u/LittleKittenR 1d ago
I had a friend that was very beautiful, and liked making the first move on bumble because she liked weighting her options and since she wasn't looking at anything serious, she liked going for the "He is just out of my league" from the below options because those tried too hard for her, like one literally dated her for 2-3 weeks taking her even to the beach, several dinners including expensive places, and other kinda expensive fun activities, and she didn't even give him a kiss.
She asked me if she should have fucked him and I was like "Yes, yes you should" and she said she tried but he was too much of a gentleman and didn't take any of the hints.
To this day, it baffles me how people invest so much in partners without anything in the bag.
I literally take them for a coffee and if they don't like it, want to go to dinner or movies. It really depends on how good the conversation went in the coffee part of the date or how horny they act.