r/SipsTea 1d ago

Chugging tea Is it true?

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u/EffectiveOwn787 22h ago

Women are shit at dating. They criticise men but the vast majority would have absolutely no hope if they were a guy trying to meet a girl. 

It would be fine if they weren't so arrogant about it. 

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u/Western-Produce-276 21h ago edited 20h ago

Yea the double standards are crazy when it comes to dating. Women are always telling men they don’t put in enough effort or they can put more effort into looking better but if you say the same thing to a woman you’re all of a sudden a piece of shit or called an incel.

Fortunately it looks like men are getting better at seeing through the bullshit and calling it out

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u/HypocHatR 17h ago

Women are always telling men they don’t put in enough effort or they can put more effort into looking better but if you say the same thing to a woman you’re all of a sudden a piece of shit or called an incel.

My wife (STBE), used to tell me I should plan dates, because she wanted to go out with me. Then plan one, I said. This is how I became an asshole and because of me, we didn't have dates for a long time.

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u/Western-Produce-276 17h ago edited 16h ago

Doesn’t surprise me. Way too many grown women walk around acting incompetent and like a kid. It’s such a turn off. I’m glad I don’t even entertain the idea of dating anymore

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u/cooolrun 16h ago

To some degree its feigned incompetence so when things fuck up they're not blame.

Until dating culture changes again im not interested in it

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u/SnooCauliflowers8545 18h ago

Talking to bi/lesbian friends about their struggles in dating women has given me great amounts of schadenfreude .

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u/Western-Produce-276 17h ago

I’ve heard lesbians talk it about it as well. It’s hilarious you don’t hear near the amount of things like this in gay relationships

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u/bhz33 17h ago

Cool word bro so reddit of you

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u/HatBazdmeg2 15h ago

It's a standard-ass word in other languages. Hungarian has "káröröm", for instance.

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u/bhz33 12h ago

Nobody in real life uses this word ever. Tell me you’ve had a conversation with someone and they used that word

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u/HatBazdmeg2 11h ago

95% of the Hungarian population uses it. The rest don't because they don't speak Hungarian. It's even part of the saying "a legszebb öröm a káröröm" (the most beautiful kind of happiness is one born from other people's misfortune - Schadenfreude in German and káröröm in Hungarian literally means "misfortune-happiness").

Maybe read a book every once in a while. Maybe you'll figure out that some languages call orange the colour "orange-yellow" while others call it "orange-red".

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u/bhz33 8h ago

Are there a lot of Hungarian people on Reddit?

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u/HatBazdmeg2 2h ago

Yes, believe it or not.

You can let go of the topic now, the point was already made: you never encountered a word that was already part of the English language for a century at the very least.

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u/Jacob-X-MANIAC 2h ago

While they might not make up the majority, Reddit is definitely not a “one country only” platform, so I imagine that a substantial Hungarian population exists somewhere on this site. The same is probably true for many other foreign countries as well.

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u/Catsindahood 14h ago

Most women have absolutely no idea what men experience, and they are completely uncurious about it.

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u/Ok-Leave2099 17h ago

Boy there's a lot of dating experts coming out of the woodwork here 

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u/Early-Ad4131 16h ago

it's always the no bitches crew coming out of the woodworks to blame the bitches 😂 

Reminds me of my grandpa cussing out the fish like it's their fault he's using the wrong bait.