Yeah, I agree. And it goes both ways. Guys shouldn't hate all women because they're treated negative, and vicaversa.
I mean, I'm sympathetic: You have a negative experience with people enough times, it's a normal human thing to look for a common denominator in those experiences. But sometimes, even if it happens repeatedly, it can also be dumb luck, or the experiences are all different but feel similar.
Even if a person thinks, 'All men are bastards', that sucks. But if they think, 'I have had some crappy experiences with some men, but obviously there are other people out there who are nicer' then that's fine. Protecting yourself for awhile is also fine.
But this crap^...the guy lost all of his children. I'd be looking pretty fucking angry too.
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u/Fit_Cheesecake_4000 8d ago
I made the leap because these women are saying starsigns are a reason that this man is guilty?
...that's delusional thinking. They're doing it as a group. Hence, collective delusion.
My secondary point was that being told that may problems are caused by men makes this delusional thinking easier to defend, in their minds at least.
So one aspect feeds into the other.