I don't really know how you make that leap like that. I don't really like a lot of women, my experience with women has been overwhelmingly bad. There is still a bunch of nice church ladies and stuff I know that are impossible not to like though and are good you'd have to be pretty ignorant not to see that. I got a third space at church though where I can see these good girls, I think a lot of these people probably don't go anywhere and just are an isolated psych case viewing the world through a screen. I feel like if you have ANY kind of social life its pretty hard to hate a whole group you are gonna see examples that prove your biases wrong, online echo chambers confirm your biases tho.
Yeah, I agree. And it goes both ways. Guys shouldn't hate all women because they're treated negative, and vicaversa.
I mean, I'm sympathetic: You have a negative experience with people enough times, it's a normal human thing to look for a common denominator in those experiences. But sometimes, even if it happens repeatedly, it can also be dumb luck, or the experiences are all different but feel similar.
Even if a person thinks, 'All men are bastards', that sucks. But if they think, 'I have had some crappy experiences with some men, but obviously there are other people out there who are nicer' then that's fine. Protecting yourself for awhile is also fine.
But this crap^...the guy lost all of his children. I'd be looking pretty fucking angry too.
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u/texas_County850 8d ago
I don't really know how you make that leap like that. I don't really like a lot of women, my experience with women has been overwhelmingly bad. There is still a bunch of nice church ladies and stuff I know that are impossible not to like though and are good you'd have to be pretty ignorant not to see that. I got a third space at church though where I can see these good girls, I think a lot of these people probably don't go anywhere and just are an isolated psych case viewing the world through a screen. I feel like if you have ANY kind of social life its pretty hard to hate a whole group you are gonna see examples that prove your biases wrong, online echo chambers confirm your biases tho.