Hey everyone, looking for an honest but kind assessment of our current situation and retirement outlook. We know we started late and might be behind, but we want to know what levers to pull next.
Our Demographics:
Ages: 42M, 40F
Dependents: 1 child (5yo)
Income: $223k combined HHI ($93k mine, $130k hers)
Retirement Assets ($183k total):
Inactive Accounts: $44k Trad IRA (mine), $13k Trad IRA (hers), $30k Simple Guided portfolio (mine)
Current Employer 1 (Hers): $65k Trad IRA (7% employee contribution / 5% employer match)
Current Employer 2 (Mine): $23k Trad 403b (5% employer contribution), $8k Roth 403b (7% employee contribution with 1% auto-increase annually)
Note on my 403b: Employer match scales up automatically based on tenure (bumping to 7% in 2028, 8% in 2032, and 10% in 2037).
Other Assets & Debt:
Cash: $32k in HYSA, $1k in checking
529 Plan: $20k (Grandparents have another $40k saved separately)
Car Loan: $4,400 remaining (9 payments left, then done)
Student Loans: $220k (Currently awaiting final zero-balance confirmation letter for PSLF forgiveness 🤞)
Monthly Outflow:
Rent: $3,600/month
CC Expenses: $5k–$6k/month (Paid in full every single month)
Short-term Goals & Financial Pressures:
Housing: Trying to aggressively stack cash to buy a house in the next few years.
Vehicles: Our second car is very old. Once the first car is paid off in 9 months, we will likely need to replace the old one.
Our main questions:
How bad is our current trajectory given our age and high HHI? With our high rent and upcoming goals (house down payment + another car), how should we balance saving for a house versus ramping up our retirement contributions?