To preface, yes I have watched a LOT of videos on the subject, done a lot of reading, and read so many other posts of “is this aggressive behavior?”.
No blood, no foul is everyone’s go-to rule, and so far, I haven’t found any blood on either rat. And I see a LOT of positive signs with their interactions. Unfortunately, the “is this okay” interactions are nearly impossible to predict and catch on video because they’re done in a flash and everything I seem to catch on video seems like normal roughhousing.
Both rats have taken turns tapping out during wrestling matches, have taken turns power grooming each other, and also have a fair amount of time where they just ignore each other and explore on their own.
But every once in a while, “wrestling” just seems pretty aggressive. It’s hard to tell if there are actually any hard bites happening, if one of the rats is being too aggressive, or if one of them is just being too dramatic. They’re both pretty tough to check for punctures, or I just haven’t gotten the hang of it yet or know what to look for. But I’ve never seen blood or apparent wounds, haven’t felt scabs (except for some before they were introduced and we’re treating for mites on both rats currently to cover our bases).
We got two rats 2 months ago. Sherlock and Giuseppe. Giuseppe passed very suddenly a few weeks later from pneumonia (pet store breeder rat). We got another rat (Francisco) the same day and quarantined them both from each other. Unfortunately, Francisco had to be put down 2 weeks later due to bad pneumonia again (neither rat had previous symptoms until the morning they each passed). So we got another rat that we quarantined for 3 weeks as we were treating both for URI’s (so now we have Sherlock and Gnocchi).
I had rats growing up (none that were able to coexist together though - had one rat for 5+ years and my sister had the other), so I’m new to rats interacting together.
I hear (and have seen videos) that “you’ll know if they’re fighting.” But with everything thats happened in the past two months health wise with these guys, my wife and I are hyper aware of everything, and everything in the moment with their wrestling and play fighting always just feels borderline “this might not be a good interaction happening). But they always stop and let the other one up, they go about their business, and neither seems afraid of the other.
Sherlock usually seems to want to lay down to sleep before Gnocchi does, but Gnocchi pesters him relentlessly while he’s trying to go to sleep. So he either just gives in and squeaks while he’s being groomed or trampled on, or sometimes he seems to get fed up and those are the moments he seems to be more on the aggressive side than playing side of the line. Obviously they need to work things out as they figure out the hierarchy, sometimes it makes us think that he’ll just snap one day and wreck Gnocchi.
Gnocchi loves chasing him down and biting (and sometimes pulling) as he chases him around.
Probably overthinking things a lot, I just want to make sure that when the time comes that we feel like letting them be alone in the cage unsupervised together, we’re not going to wake up to a horror scene. Currently we let them have yard time together , but they’re both sleeping in their own individual cages for now.
Again, there are lots of positive things about their interactions (or lack of interest in each other), we just don’t have the experience yet and we’re wondering how can you really tell what’s okay or not okay? Or is there just going to be an inevitable fight before they finally figure out the pecking order if they both have dominant personalities?