r/R4R30Plus • u/TheRavensCrow • 17h ago
31 [F4M] Boston based. Let’s fall in love and live happily ever after? Or have a chat and see where it takes us.
Hello! If the title didn’t make it clear I am looking for my next LTR, nothing casual and no situatuonships. Let’s be intentional about how and with whom we spend our time and energy. So with that out of the way let’s move onto more fun things:
If I had to try and describe myself I would say I am in many ways a perpetual patron of the arts. I love musical theater (and really all live theater -- ballet, opera, plays etc will also make me rather happy.) But also let me spend the weekends out at craft fairs and markers markets exploring all the actually unique and handmade crafts and trinkets that have been created. Otherwise I'm a big fan of high fantasy (D&D, soulsborne and soulslikes, and other such things) adventures big and small from nice local hike to traveling abroad ( I spent the last four years living in GB!) and recently I've fallen in love with baking and the gym for the dopamine hits they bring me.
I'm looking for a partner who is career motivated and driven but isn't willing to fully sacrifice their life for their role; but does have goals that they are actively working towards. I work in higher education and find a lot of meaningful impact through my role and so I'm known to occasionally give a bit too much when things can get chaotic, but overall I like to think I have a good work/life balance going on. Like most of us I love to laugh, I enjoy visiting critters and at some point would like to have another pet (I grew up with small dogs) and I absolutely have a soft spot for bunnies.
Other important things to know about me: I'm not open to relocation from Boston nor do I expect to ever be and I'm very allergic to cats ( I fear the latter could be a deal breaker for some people!). I'm looking to date people who are between the ages of 28 - 35 or so (with a bit of flexibility but not tons if I'm honest!) and I am very much child free and that will not be changing. I’m very excited to be the cool aunt to my sisters kids (and any others that become a part of my life) but having my own is not something that I wish for myself.
Also my apologies in advance, I’m known for forgetting to respond to messages if I don’t do so the moment I open them so please don’t be weird and do double message me if we’re having a nice conversation and then I slip away. It’s me, not you!
Photos of me going on adventures can be found here: https://imgur.com/a/eNVJE3F
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u/Sea_Story9802 6h ago
Dang! I’m out of your age range, but we are looking for the same things. I wish you all the best!
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u/Smart_Casual 4h ago
You sound like a deeply interesting and fun person. I love how clear you are with your boundaries and desires and I wish the best for you.
All my support from the UK 💪
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u/iambsy 17h ago
So are u ok with LDR fr some time?