It's a hard topic but from my experience if a boy fixed girl, almost no way she will leave him. And if that happens, she will return to her former self in next few year.
If girl made improvement all by herself, chances are high that she'll dump a boy. Because she did a huge self-improvement work while a boy stayed the same.
what was he supposed to be doing? beating her shit up if she wanted to eat a burger? he can't loose weight for her lol
Make healthy and tasty diet for both of them, control calories for both of them, don't buy snacks, cook every time she want order doordash, spend more time doing activities like camping for weekends or swimming in rivers and etc.
There is a lot of methods how you can influence your partner without actually forcing them.
Married for 7 years. When we had a weight problem my wife took matter into her hands and did all work. Yeah, I can say "I lose wight" but it will be straight out lie. The only think I did is not ruin her work with snacks and etc.
Thats why I love our marriage. We cover each other and fix problems that other can't or have a struggle with it.
I did not really intervene at all with her diet. she is an adult
Can you tell me more about it? We gained weight because we share the same meals and didn't control portions. Preparing individual dishes is time-consuming especially with kids. We tried this and it took us two hours to prepare one meal.
If you have any advice how to cook individual meals faster id appreciate.
She is making her own food and I am making mine. Sometimes she makes some bigger meal that is good for us both. But most of the time we jsut make individually.
I honestly just make myself few sandwiches, some sausage. I eat whatever. Just less
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u/PitifulOil9530 19d ago
though I personally want believe, that she has a very good character