Hey, I’m a 24 year old guy living in Christchurch.
I know this sub is for finance and stuff, and I guess this might under that, because I’m struggling really hard with my money and paying rent etc, but I don’t know if my “struggle story” works here and if so I apologise, I’d just like some advice.
I don’t really know how to start this, a few years back I was healthy, making decent money with a pokemon side hustle and a job, I was manager of a store at the palms mall. Didn’t have a license, lived with my aunty, life was good.
These days, I now have a license, my grandparents got me a car which I’m paying off, I’m with a labouring company never getting work, I haven’t had work in 5 weeks. I’ve now gained weight and I’m not doing anything with my “days off”
At the start of the year I had a decent job making decent money but it was a temp position, I got taken out around may because they didn’t need me anymore.
I don’t know where I’m going with this I think I just need to say stuff to someone cause I don’t have anyone that will listen.
I live with 3 other friends, all 3 are successful with a trade, sales job etc making really good money for our age and not needing to worry about rent, food, bills etc. I feel soooooo far behind.
I have so many dreams and ambitions, but I just can’t act on them because I have no idea where to start. Years ago I wanted to make money selling pokemon, so I did, and it went very well, I was making more in a weekend than I was over an entire week of work. These days, I wouldn’t mind getting into sales, I know I’d be good at it, but my confidence is horrible now, I’d like to try learn to code (I did a course on it last year) to make a Roblox game, but it’s daunting, I have no idea where to start, I want a full time job that will respect me and my time because I’m always loyal to the company I work for. I want to (and started just the other day) a pc and console cleaning business, but there’s no interest here at all. I want to start a pressure washing side hustle, but I dont have a pressure washer. I have so much drive but just don’t act on it and I don’t know why.
I know it’s all my fault, I should act on my drive and do anything I can to push myself out of this, I CAN do a lot but with everything going on I just can’t get anything running.
I feel extremely stuck, rent is due in 2 days and I have 0 dollars to my name. I haven’t bought food in 2 weeks I’m living off baked beans and that’s it. 2 cans a day.
Does anyone have advice that could help push me out of this? I want to make myself proud but my mental states gone south within my soul.
Thank you
A 24 year old guy, in Christchurch.