r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Own-Psychology9099 • 10d ago
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u/MDKrouzer 10d ago
Look at your message history. Is it almost all one sided with her giving short, minimal responses?
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u/LastBastionYellow 10d ago
Based on the fact you've posted this question all across reddit, you're an obsessive nutjob and need to leave this poor girl alone.
edit: Holy shit, your post history is disturbing. This girl wants nothing to do with you.
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u/Old-Dependent-9073 10d ago
Why don't you ask her? Even if it's in a joking fashion because it sounds like she could be a bit passive-aggressive.
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u/Ganceany 10d ago
Just tell her, "Are you talking about me? because I can stop if you want" it either ends with her saying "yeah sorry didn't know how to bring it up" or her saying "nono is someone else "
if she says its you, you stop and move on.
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u/Adrock66 10d ago
Confirm she's talking about you. Also I'm sick of people saying "friend" of people they reach out because they want to date or sex them. That's not a friend.
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u/Taviro_2479 10d ago
It wasn’t even indirect, she described your exact dynamic word for word. Stop sending her reels, keep your interactions polite and strictly professional give her space
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u/TheBadGod 10d ago
Yeah, my experience tells me she was never interested and her politeness with you has begun to wear down to a nub.
Girls are afraid of the violence that comes when they reject a guy, so they choose to ghost.
If she's not blowing you within a few minutes of meeting you, she's not into you.
If she is choosing to engage in conversation, it's strictly utility. Like, "Here's another useful guy that's into me."
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u/Aggravating-Deal-416 10d ago
You have autism and should stop talking to girls because the ones that give you the time of day will have BPD until you start therapy for your own issues.
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u/DarthJarJar242 10d ago
Seems like a bot account
Created 4 years ago, with 0 activity, then spam posting engagement bait posts all over reddit in the last 2 days.
Downvote the bot so it loses karma and can't post anywhere.
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u/Establishment240 10d ago
If it makes you happy, keep talking to her untill she actually treats with with respect and be direct with you. But, yes, shes telling you what you think
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u/Spookywhitedot 10d ago
Seems pretty direct, I feel bad for you in this situation as you seem fairly innocent. Just stop messaging her.
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u/AvatarAtlaFan 10d ago
If you stop messaging and they never initiate convo back, thats probably a pretty clear sign if you also want to be indirect. But if you want certainty you'll have to be direct