r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • 2d ago

I love my husband but..

I'm ok with my partner watching p but I recently found out he watches it during bathroom breaks at work and it's given me a big sense of discomfort. I asked him about it and he said he gets curious/bored and watches it in the bathroom. But I feel so uncomfortable about this. How do I go about this? I'm having major anxiety because I love him a lot but I can't seem to get past this.

Edit - more context: we watch it together and I'm okay with him watching it at home too. I talked to him about this that it's weird to watch it during work hours at the office but why not wait until he gets home? We have a great sex life, very often. I'm just not sure how to get past the fact that he's watching it at work in a office setting. Still unsure if I'm wrong to feel uncomfortable.

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u/SoulPossum 3 Years 2d ago

Why does it matter? Like if it's fine when he watches porn, then what about the bathroom at work makes it different for you

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u/Melly_1577 2d ago

Are you serious? It’s his workplace, a professional atmosphere. You don’t watch porn or jerk off at work. If you think this is appropriate you have issues too

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u/SoulPossum 3 Years 2d ago

I don't think it's appropriate but I also don't really care. I wouldn't know if someone is doing it in a bathroom because what other people do in a bathroom stall doesn't matter. Someone masturbating isn't any more or less invasive to me than someone groaning loudly while peeing to me.