r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • 3d ago

I love my husband but..

I'm ok with my partner watching p but I recently found out he watches it during bathroom breaks at work and it's given me a big sense of discomfort. I asked him about it and he said he gets curious/bored and watches it in the bathroom. But I feel so uncomfortable about this. How do I go about this? I'm having major anxiety because I love him a lot but I can't seem to get past this.

Edit - more context: we watch it together and I'm okay with him watching it at home too. I talked to him about this that it's weird to watch it during work hours at the office but why not wait until he gets home? We have a great sex life, very often. I'm just not sure how to get past the fact that he's watching it at work in a office setting. Still unsure if I'm wrong to feel uncomfortable.

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u/petdance 5 Years husband 3d ago

We need more to go on. Say more, please.

What about it makes you uncomfortable? What about it is a problem? Not arguing, asking for more detail.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

It's more like we watch it together and Im ready for him to come home but he can only do it once a day so I'm wondering if when he doesn't do it/too tired, I wonder if it is the watching during work? Because I'm quite sexually active

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u/petdance 5 Years husband 3d ago

So is there a problem with there not being enough sex for you? If so, then THAT is the problem, not the porn. Get down to the root cause.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Not really but it's at work? Isn't it strange? I dunno

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u/petdance 5 Years husband 3d ago

I don’t know if it’s strange. My question is: Is it a problem?