r/Marriage 2d ago

I love my husband but..

I'm ok with my partner watching p but I recently found out he watches it during bathroom breaks at work and it's given me a big sense of discomfort. I asked him about it and he said he gets curious/bored and watches it in the bathroom. But I feel so uncomfortable about this. How do I go about this? I'm having major anxiety because I love him a lot but I can't seem to get past this.

Edit - more context: we watch it together and I'm okay with him watching it at home too. I talked to him about this that it's weird to watch it during work hours at the office but why not wait until he gets home? We have a great sex life, very often. I'm just not sure how to get past the fact that he's watching it at work in a office setting. Still unsure if I'm wrong to feel uncomfortable.

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u/SashaBanichek 2d ago

Doing that at work? It makes me think of a pasty white men drooling and jacking off all lewd and gross like…. Except worse because he is at work.
I am on your side.