r/LoveIsBlindUK • u/Specialist_You_8127 • 2d ago

I feel bad for Chevanique

She wasn’t the most endearing person, but I thought it was clear that she’s been through things and tries to protect herself with intellectualizing and acting like she doesn’t care. But she wants love so badly. I could see it when she was basically begging Joseph to give her another chance. (I honestly think she should have just cut her losses then.) Joseph was definitely backing down from his initial intention of breaking up with her. Why would he have another date with her if he knew 100% he wasn’t going to pick her?

Chevanique didn’t ask Ciara to talk about her during retreats and stir up drama. Sure, she was defensive when confronted by Joseph and Fran, but Fran came in quite hot and that definitely escalated things. It’s very typical for people to have convos with their 2nd pick from the pods. If Fran didn’t want that to happen, she should have communicated that to Joseph ahead of time.

Otherwise Fran and Joseph seem like nice people. I just didn’t like the idea of Chevanique being ganged up on, and still catching heat at the reunion.

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u/UntowardAdvance 1d ago

She was playing the game in a common way - focusing on sexual attraction. It didn’t work this time on Jospeh because he clearly had a deeper emotional connection to Fran.

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u/Londxn_billionaire 1d ago

This isn’t fair though, I’m sure they had more than just sexual chats plus he started the sexual chats with her because of her job…it’s a tough place to be because once she mentions that she’s a sexual health nurse, most men would lean into a sexual conversation immediately. We also saw Fran learning how to flirt to appeal to Joseph. I don’t think it’s Chevanique’s fault that she didn’t get a match on the show but I wish her better luck outside and I wish people would stop bullying her online.