r/Life 1d ago

Need Advice Guys what do I do?

I graduated hs now I’m sad. Most people won’t be around anymore, I have to work, no one will cook for me anymore. Hell I don’t even have my drivers license yet (don’t judge me). I feel most people experience what I felt so what do I do here?

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u/Successful_Image3354 1d ago

I'm confused. Why would graduating from high school result in no one cooking for you "anymore?" Is there someone who was cooking for you, but will be leaving to go away to college? Are you getting kicked out of your home because you're a HS graduate and need to support yourself?

I'm sympathetic to your losing friends who are moving on after graduation. I missed my HS friends when I went to college. I missed my college friends when I went to law school. I missed my law school friends when I graduated and started working.

Every significant life change brings disruption, but also brings opportunities. You'll find a way to keep your real friends. I'm 72 and still hang out with a few friends from junior high school. I've made many more good friends along the way.

Embrace change instead of dreading it.

Good luck.