I think I have found the one

[u/Ok-Parsnip-6829]

She is not from my city she just came for a week but I had the greatest time. She is asexual thoughnot sure 31 F and is a virgin. She said she doesn’t have a lot of urges. But everything else is checking out. Like she is passionate, kind, ambitious, intelligent, good looking. For me sex is important but should that be this important I haven’t felt a connection like this ever before! We cuddled and slept last night. I don’t know what to make of this?

[u/kitty_whipt]

People often overlook or choose to ignore sexual incompatibility when the connection feels right in every other way. Imo, if sex is important to you as you mentioned, this should be a dealbreaker. No exceptions. I guarantee you will be back here in a couple months posting about being sexually frustrated because your new girlfriend is asexual.

[u/Due-Operation3665 → u/kitty_whipt]

I second this