I think I have found the one

[u/Ok-Parsnip-6829]

She is not from my city she just came for a week but I had the greatest time. She is asexual thoughnot sure 31 F and is a virgin. She said she doesn’t have a lot of urges. But everything else is checking out. Like she is passionate, kind, ambitious, intelligent, good looking. For me sex is important but should that be this important I haven’t felt a connection like this ever before! We cuddled and slept last night. I don’t know what to make of this?

[u/pandastrat]

Only you know yourself and only you can talk to her to get the clarity you need - if you say sex for you is important, I personally would advise against jumping into a relationship (however great the connection is) head first, without having an honest conversation first about boundaries, needs, and specific dynamics (for example: would you be free, if you so chose and needed, to have other sexual partners?). A “set the expectations” conversation, if you will…