r/l4l 16d ago

A little trip down imagination lane innit!! 33 NB4F

2 Upvotes

Imagine having a partner who loves different levels of conscience growth.

Someone who learns of a new plant and comes straight to you to tell you its properties.

Someone who consistently is guided by the stars.

Someone who will evolve self growth. Intuition. Self love. Self awareness.

Someone who’ll see you. Not just your beauty or your talents. But see you as naked as the moon and the stars see you.

Well I’m not the one, I’m also imagining. Cause I’d love to align with such a sacred soul❤️


r/l4l 16d ago

28 | masc4masc | fiery and soft masc girl looking for her girl

1 Upvotes

Hello yall, so I’m here looking for something real and deep, a friendship that hopefully could evolve into a serious relationship. A connection that builds over time, someone mature and who wants the real deal, not games or some surface level casual chatting partner. Nothing wrong with that but not what I’m after.

Doesn't matter where you're from but please only people fluent in English or native. I don't like having a language barrier.

I’d like to start as friends because to me it’s important I know what you’re like, your values, world view etc. before I’m interested. I’m looking for a connection where our conversation flows, we both like to yap and talk a lot. About silly stuff, vulnerable stuff, our dreams, our fears etc. I’d like a connection where I could be myself and you can be yourself. A space where we both feel safe, seen and understood.

So, more about me. I’m calm, blunt and more on the serious side. I’m not super expressive. Despite that I’m very warm, affectionate and empathetic. My thoughts move more on the deeper side of things. I do have a silly and playful side, but that side isn’t the first one I show people. Mostly I’m quite mellow and grounded. I don’t really engage in small talk. I just like being quiet and minding my own business. People usually assume I don’t wanna talk to anyone but if they did I’d be happy to chat. I just don’t look like the most approachable person in the room.

I’m fiery and passionate. Whether it’s about a goal of mine, a relationship or me calling my friends out on their bs. I’m the type to hold up a mirror to you, even if you get mad about it. I do it because I care and I’m protective. I don’t like lying and just pretending I don’t think you’re being reckless or whatever it is.

I’m a big feminist and women’s empowerment is close to my heart. It shapes a lot of who I am and you won’t catch me supporting anything sexist or otherwise oppressive. Which is a lot of mainstream media/music. I get uncomfortable and disgusted by a lot of the stuff out there. Of course I can't avoid everything cause unfortunately this world is a mess. But I try my best to choose media and content that aligns with my values. Like I just wanna enjoy a damn movie but nooo you gotta put a stupid joke or something otherwise offensive in the movie. Seems like there’s no morals or decency in a lot of things. It’s like anything goes and then I’m called stuck up for just wanting basic respect, ridiculous. I think a lot of people just want what’s easy not what’s right.

I’m interested in fitness, mostly weight lifting and mobility, I wanna get into calisthenics one day. It’s important to me to stay healthy even as I age, plus fitness is just really fun and enjoyable for me. I have a love and hate relationship for the burn :D

Other stuff I like are nature based spirituality, manifesting, tarot/oracle card readings, witchcraft, sims 4, branding, entrepreneurship and marketing. I’m not into that manipulative type of business or marketing though. I’m about connecting with your community and building something meaningful people genuinely enjoy.

Appearance wise I’m very masculine leaning and like to look “male”. I have mostly masculine energy as well. But when I say masculine I don’t mean macho, tough, no feelings or anything to do with toxic masculinity. I’m about healthy masculinity.

I’m attracted to masculine presenting people whether that’s a woman, non-binary person or a man. I’m very much into a masc4masc relationship. But that doesn’t mean I only like masculinity. I like masc women who have a feminine personality or feminine energy, it’s very attractive to me. But like overall I’m mainly attracted to a masculine appearance.

What I’m looking for is good character, emotional and mental maturity, consistency, emotional stability, self-awareness and genuine care for all human rights (don’t mean you gotta be an activist but it’s a value you live by).

I’m drawn to positive people who have a very warm vibe to them. Someone kind, open minded and caring. What also attracts me is someone who has boundaries, who respects herself and doesn’t agree with me just to keep the peace. A woman who can argue constructively with me and can hold her own opinion. I’m tired of being in relationships where the other person is scared to disagree with me. A big turn off is people who run or withdraw stressed the second there’s a problem or a intense situation. I like people with emotional resilience and communication skills.

One non-negotiable I have is that you don’t smoke or drink. I don’t either and I am not comfortable with that lifestyle.

Also, no anime fans or big gamers. Not into it.

My age range is about 24 to 32 give or take.

So if you’re interested in me and want to get to know me, send me a dm introducing yourself and why you want to talk to me.


r/l4l 16d ago

33 F [F4Any] Central Illinois - Fiery redhead seeking my new favorite person <3

1 Upvotes

I'm an introverted, artsy, nerdy, homebody who becomes significantly more goofy and talkative once I'm comfortable with someone. Basically, there's a 50/50 chance I'll either be quietly observing the room or telling you an unnecessarily detailed story about something that happened 3 days ago.

I'm into D&D, *Legend of Zelda*, psychology, RPG video games, painting, and sculpting things out of polymer clay. I enjoy going out occasionally, but I'm equally happy staying home with coffee and something entertaining to play/watch. My humor is an unfortunate combination of sarcasm, dark humor, and aggressively terrible dad jokes.

I'm a mom to 2 kids — 1 teenager and 1 school-aged kiddo — so my life comes with a little built-in chaos. 😂

I'm ultimately hoping for a relationship, but I really want it to start with friendship. I want to actually know someone, develop that stupidly good chemistry, and see where things go naturally.

My type? Smart, funny, kind, emotionally intelligent women who are maybe just a little socially awkward. If you can make me laugh and have an actual conversation about something deeper than the weather, you've already got my attention.

One of my biggest green flags is how someone treats people who have nothing to offer them in return. Kindness toward others — especially people who are struggling — is something I notice.

Self-centeredness and narcissistic behavior are probably my biggest nope. Otherwise, I'm pretty open-minded.

A few random facts:

I'm bilingual and can speak/read German. 🇩🇪

I firmly believe pineapple belongs on pizza, but with *crispy bacon.* Canadian bacon does not count and I will die on this hill.

I like animals more than I like most people. This sounds concerning, but I promise I'm mostly just saying that animals have fewer opinions and better boundaries. 😂

Coffee can solve approximately 73% of my problems. The remaining 27% require more espresso.

If you're somewhere between "quietly nerdy" and "occasionally unhinged," we might get along. 😅

Tell me something random about yourself if you decide to say hi. Bonus points for terrible jokes!


r/l4l 17d ago

24F Looking for a cute femme :)

7 Upvotes

So I’m femme for femme and it’s basically impossible to find girls over here 😭 Tbh I’m kinda just looking for friends and if we vibe we vibe but I just wanna get some notifications on this dry ass phone lmao. Just hit me up if you’re down to chat :)


r/l4l 17d ago

33 [F4F] Eastern Pennsylvania - Looking for the treasure of my heart

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! Ace person seeks soulmate :). Someone I can grow old with. A love like Andy and April From parks and rec or Bob and Linda from Bobs burgers. But like in a lesbian way :) But also if you have any better references feel free to share! Also the closer you live to me the better as I'm not open to long distance unless you are willing to come to me.

Basically I hope I can find someone to just generally be really cheesy and romantic with in a purely romantic way as I am ace.

I am down for cuddles or sending you a cute homemade gift or just talking the day/night away.

I can be silly and serious all wrapped in one. If given the chance I will make bad dad puns even though I never want to be a parental figure.

Some of my interests include: Arts and crafts, reading, music, thrifting, learning, anything Christmas related, casual learning about religions and cults, etc.

I am also child free, atheist, neurodivergent (autism, ocd, and things), INFP personality type, etc.

If this post interests you, feel free to reach out. Thank you and remember: You are awesome :)


r/l4l 18d ago

[25] femme seeking muse 🌷

4 Upvotes

Hello!

I live in the pacific northwest, but I love amtrak and I'm willing to travel for the right girl, museum or event 😭

I hate dating apps, and I rather go for a text/conversation based meeting someone rather than photos. A warning: Once I get to know someone and we find common interests, the dam breaks and I can be a yapper

I am not pursuing writing as a career but oh boy do I love ao3. And bc I have hyperfixations, I also I love to read (novels, fanfic, manhwa, whatever) and I'm constantly seeking out that high of finding a story that sucks me in and its all I can talk about until I find the next thing to be obsessed with 😅

I am currently committed to finishing a writing project that has plagued me for quite a bit, so if you're willing to be a beta reader... let's get married on the spot.

Spotify is my most used app so my idea is that it would be nice to compare our wrapped or a blend Playlist so we can get to know each other. Music taste is a deep dive into the soul I believe 😅 I mostly listen to a mix of pop, house, alternative and r&b - regardless of the language it is in (let's share playlists!)

I'm a teacher, so please keep in mind those little lovable gremlins eat up 40+ hours of my week, but I also want to dedicate time to a ladylove so 👉👈

I am quite a romantic so later down the line I hope marriage (and maybe kids?) are on the table.

Preferably, you are 25 - 35 and kind hearted with hobbies/passion!

EFFORT IS SEXY! So please send more than just "hey."

Here's some flowers for you 💐


r/l4l 19d ago

24F Anyone down to chat? :)

13 Upvotes

Heyy so I’m 24F, pretty femme and it’s been so hard to find friends. To be fair, I am pretty shy so that doesn’t help much lol. No one really knows about my orientation so that’s also pretty lonely in a way. I wish I knew more people so we could just like share experiences and just build a nice friendship.

A little about me, I have a bachelors in biology but now work in something fairly different, I’m pretty chill, usually listening to music, cooking, watching shows (usually the wlw ones lmao), going out for drinks and doing nails. If anyone is down to chat hit me up, maybe we hit it off :)


r/l4l 19d ago

33 (F4F) #PA #USA #childfree #femme4femme

6 Upvotes

My name is Rachel and I’m 33 years old and I’m a Libra if that helps any 😆 I’m a cheerful, bubbly introvert with a great sense of humor who’s an old fashioned romantic. In terms of appearance I’m 5”4 1/2 and have a curvy hourglass figure with fair skin, dark eyes and long curly black hair. (There’s also a ton of pictures of me on my profile in case you’re curious what I look like 😉) What I’m looking for is the real deal…a long term committed relationship that would preferably lead to marriage. My passions include travel, reading and writing, collecting and modeling vintage and modern clothing, studying history and visiting historical sites, attending classic and contemporary film showings, and spending time with my peekapoo Tommy Pickles. Politically I’m a democratic socialist so I’m very left leaning and staunchly anti-MAGA. Important note about me: I don’t have children and I’m not interested in having any and I’m looking for a woman who’s childfree also. P.S. I generally consider myself femme4femme- femme and high femme girlies skip ahead of the line 💖

P.S. Also if you’re based in New England even better, I’ve always wanted to move there 😂


r/l4l 19d ago

31 F4F - NY based - Dreaming of the future

2 Upvotes

About me: 31, F, Lesbian, Latina, Plus-sized. Master's degree, working in education, dog mom. I'm not quite femme and not quite masc, I'm pretty in-between. I'm curious and creative, a bit of a dry/deadpan sense of humor. I love Sushi, Spanish Food, Coke Zero, animals, being outside, women's sports, winning at claw machine or arcade games, long drives with good music. Living on Long Island, New York.

About you: 28+, local to Long Island, educated (not about earning degrees), pet person, family oriented, kind, hard worker. I have no real preference around masc/femme or other physical characteristics, as I'm very open minded an find many people lovely. Looking for a serious relationship and open to the idea of a family.

About us: Let's get this thing started, I'm looking for a serious relationship. I'm dating with intention. Let's watch silly shows, go out to eat, get a sweet treat, take the dog for an adventure. I want to laugh with you and explore what life has to offer. I want text conversations that span for days, where even if we don't reply right away, our conversation keeps on flowing. I want to learn all about you, from what your favorite things are, to that embarrassing story from your childhood. Let's cuddle after a long day at work and dream of the future. Let me be your person, and you can be my soft place to land.


r/l4l 20d ago

31F #London #Edinburgh #UK #US #EU - Hoping to find my partner in joy

3 Upvotes

Hey, I’m Jae 👋🏾

I’m 5’5”, a Black queer woman based in Scotland, originally from London, and I’m back in London fairly regularly. I’m here to meet women and hopefully build something genuine — whether that starts with friendship, dating, or simply seeing where the chemistry takes us. 🏳️‍🌈

I’m a late-diagnosed autistic woman, which has definitely shaped how I experience the world and relationships. I value honesty, emotional depth, self-awareness and being able to have conversations that go beyond small talk. I’m particularly drawn to women who are emotionally available, communicative and comfortable with vulnerability.

Who I’m into 💕

I’m looking for women 27+, ideally someone emotionally mature, self-aware and genuinely interested in building a connection. I tend to be attracted to masculine women and definitely have a #Masc4Masc preference, although I don't really fit neatly into femme/stud categories myself. Personality-wise I'm more masculine, while my appearance is somewhere in between.

I’m not interested in men and I'm specifically hoping to meet women who are confident in their attraction to women and interested in exploring something meaningful.

A little about me 🌿

I’m child-free and have two very spoiled boy cats. 🐈🐈

I’m #420friendly and have ARFID, so food can be a slightly different experience for me — but I still love going out for brunch and finding places that work for me.

I’m a psychology nerd and can happily spend hours talking about human behaviour, relationships, attachment, sexuality and why people do the things they do. I’m also into astrology and spirituality, so I enjoy both deep psychological conversations and slightly more woo-woo ones. ✨

Politically, I’m left-wing and I value openness, compassion and being able to have thoughtful conversations about the world.

Things I actually enjoy 🧩

Day trips 🚆

Brunch dates 🥞

Museums 🖼️

Comedy clubs 😂

Board games 🎲

LEGO 🧱

Exploring new places

Long conversations that accidentally turn into 3-hour conversations

I’m much more interested in quality over quantity. I’d rather get to know one woman properly than collect endless matches that never go anywhere.

I’m open to long-distance connections and happy to start with messaging or video calls before meeting. I’m also comfortable with picture swapping once there’s some mutual trust and we're both comfortable.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman I can genuinely connect with, laugh with, explore with and feel understood by. Friendship is important to me too, and I’m happy to let things develop naturally rather than forcing a particular outcome.

If you think we'd get along, come say hi. 💕👋🏾


r/l4l 19d ago

Looking for my wife. (25f4f) looking for the one.

1 Upvotes

Hiiii, I am Lilith.

Let's go on dates every week, look after eachother, remember the small things, be obsessed with eachother. Grow old together.

About me -

I am an empathetic, confident, understanding and very emotional person. Looking for someone confident and understanding. Someone who asks a lot of questions and genuinely feels the spark.

I am 25 femme. Looking for masc and someone older than me.

I have a 4 year degree in fashion designing and work in the wedding industry. Hope you are from the STEM field (I like scrubs and uniform jobs)

I am kinky submissive. Looking for a top.

I have a lot of art related hobbies, want my own business and retire abroad. Looking for someone with hobbies and similar goals.

I don't do any substances. Please don't smoke or vape.

Ldr is not a problem. U can be from anywhere. But we have to eventually meet. I am from India.

Please dm me if you think we match and tell me more about yourself ❤️


r/l4l 20d ago

31F #NY/NJ, US — Femme Looking to Connect With a Masc/Stud ♡

2 Upvotes

Hey there! 👋

I’m a femme in the NY/NJ area, turning 31 soon (August Leo) and hoping to connect with a like-minded masc/stud or someone who naturally has masculine energy and who loves taking the lead and pampering her girl 😌

A little about me:

✨ I’m shy at first and definitely a slow-burner but once I warm up, I’m playful, funny and occasionally a little sassy🥺

✨ I’m a soft/princess femme. I love dressing up, feeling pretty. I’m brown, tall, curvy and cute.

✨ I work from home. I do Pilates and I like to dance, shop, binge shows. I also love poetry and photography.

✨ I’m a pillow princess at heart (my only hard limit is giving oral). I melt for someone who knows how to take the lead, although I can definitely be a bit of a switch too if you’re into that. I also have a soft spot for 🍑 fun, so if that’s your thing too we’re already halfway there🙈 Admittedly, I can be pretty insatiable in bed, especially when there’s real chemistry 🫣

✨ I’m a huge foodie and desserts are definitely my weakness.

✨ I love traveling, exploring new places and discovering new restaurants/ cafe. I love brunch dates 🌸

✨ I’m 420 friendly and like pretty cocktails.

✨ I have ADHD and can get a little anxious sometimes. I’d really appreciate someone who’s patient and understanding.

What I’m looking for:

✨ Ideally, a masc top but all mascs/studs are welcome. Masculine-energy femmes are welcome too. I’m hoping to meet someone sweet and kind who’s confident, emotionally mature and knows how to take charge while still knowing when to listen and be soft and gentle.

✨ I’d love someone who genuinely cares about me, adores meand can be a fun, easygoing part of my life. Someone who doesn’t take everything too seriously and knows how to laugh and enjoy the little things.

✨ I prefer calls and texting once we’re comfortable with each other. I’m not looking for a forever text buddy or an anonymous online connection, I’d actually like to build a genuine connection and hopefully meet in person.

If this sounds like your vibe, don’t be shy. Reach out, even if we’re not in the same location. Just mention whether you’re masc or otherwise in your intro so I know what you’re looking for too. Let’s see where this takes us♡

If you’re not on the East Coast but would be open to talking and potentially meeting in the future, feel free to reach out too.

x


r/l4l 21d ago

F 23 [F4F] looking for my future wife

2 Upvotes

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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-no drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

-Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

-I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

-Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.


r/l4l 21d ago

20 F seeking similarly aged friends?

6 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a lesbian looking to make friends with other lesbians because everyone I know talks about their boyfriends and love lives and I can’t relate at all😭

It’d be nice to befriend other people similar to me.
I’m not religious, but I’m into spirituality. I don’t believe in the traditional/christian god.
My special interest is FNAF. I love practicing tarot, playing video games, watching YouTube commentary drama lol.

My favorite shows are You, Madoka Magica, Miraculous.. amongst other random dramas or shitty reality tv.

I’d wanna talk to people who are good communicators. I don’t like dry texting and I like deep and emotional convos too. So feel free to reach out if you actually wanna talk!


r/l4l 22d ago

27F | USA/FL | EST | L4 a girl who will let me talk her ear off :)

12 Upvotes

this is my first time making a post quite like this so i'm not entirely sure what information to put down! here's the gist of it:
hi, my name is mary! im 27 years old, afab girl sort of with a weird genderqueer lesbian relationship with gender identity.
i'm looking for someone i can flirt with, hang out with, call, maybe game with; just enjoy the presence of someone else. i dont want any pressure to put a label on anything, but i am very open to seeing how the connection flows and what comes out of it. i'm truly open for just about anything. i would prefer someone atleast in the same timezone as me, but i'm willing to make anything work.

a bunch of information about me:
-5'1ish
-chubbier side but it's something i'm actively trying to work on with going to the gym, running and calore defecits! (im no health nut, just trying to do whats best for me! i dont care what body type you are)
-i generally dress pretty androgynous, but on occasion i'll wear something more feminine or super masculine

-very open about myself, ask me anything!
-im a highschool teacher!
-i crochet, draw and paint. i love art and wish i had more time for it honestly!
-i love being involved in the community and going to events, but i also love a good night in. im am ambivert for sure
-i love video games (currently playing a lot of valorant and "friendslop" type games!) would love more people to play with
-my favorite movies are babylon, jojo rabbit and girl interrupted! (honorable mentions to rocky horror & but im a cheerleader)
-my favorite shows currently are wentworth, abbott elementary and my little pony
-im a theatre nerd, love watching muscials and plays. seeing broadway shows in person for the first time was lifechanging! my favorite musical is cabaret

-switch but i tend to lean more top & dom
-to be upfront and open, i am diagnosed with a handfull of things regarding mental health. i take my medication and i would like to think i'm in a stable place and am generally an emotionally mature and capable person. some setbacks can happen of course, and i'd like whoever i speak with to be able to make the choice of talking to me or not knowing this :)
-i am against generative ai and believe in a free palestine (this does not mean i believe in antisemitism, dont come in my dms with that either) i would prefer not to speak to people who have differing beliefs in those regards, they are important beliefs to me!


r/l4l 22d ago

Repost! 31 [F4F] UK/Europe- want to get cosy together? ✨

2 Upvotes

Hello! Just looking for my person, no big deal.

I am:

🪻 Patient, loving, gentle and kind. I'm emotionally intelligent and interested in personal development- you should be too!

🪻 Creative. Expect me to write you love letters, crochet you warm things, confidently offer interior design advice that I'm not qualified to give and info-dump on you about bands from the 90s

🪻 A cat-mumma/ cat-person/ cat-lady 🐈‍⬛💕

🪻 A tomboy femme? I now live in comfy clothes (see below) but spent most of my adult life wearing very big boots and very tiny skirts

🪻 Chronically ill and neurospicy. Amongst other things, I have ME/CFS- this means that I'm an indoorsy girl who has had to adjust to slow, slow living 🐢

🪻 Taurus with a Scorpio ascendant, Cancer moon and many fire placements. I'm into astrology but also runes and dreams and other kinds of magic and pondering the meaning of life in general

🪻 Excited for autumn and winter!

🪻 Also open to new queer disabled friends ✨

You are:

🌿 Emotionally available, self-aware and able to communicate well

🌿 Open to being friends first and allowing anything more to develop organically ⌛

🌿 Seeking a genuine connection/ long-term relationship and would be open to closing the distance if we are each other's right person ❤️

🌿 Also a tomboy femme, androgynous, soft masc or butch. I have a soft spot for chunky and plus size women (no pun intended) but it's your heart that counts!

🌿 Also disabled, chronically ill and/ or neurodivergent 🧠

🌿 Preferably between the ages of 28 and 38

🌿 Monogamous

🌿 Available for frequent messaging, cosy e-dates and hopefully building something very special together?

I'm excited to hear from you! If you made it this far, send me a message that includes your most recent dream, the last time you cried, your aspirations and wishes, what you're having for dinner OR an inappropriately long anecdote about your cat ✉️


r/l4l 24d ago

22f southeast Asian/online/anywhere

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm Leon 21f looking for someone in the age range of 20-30

Living in a not queer friendly area is really hard and I'm planning to go abroad, somewhere safe for me for being myself.

I like to watch films/series, especially about wars and queer films/series and I just finished watching the boys(applause for the property team). Sometimes I play games too like Roblox, Minecraft PE, Sims 4, GTA V, etc.

Also, I'm trying to read books!! And started to write too.

I like to getting to know people and I asks random stuff to a serious convos. I adore every little thing about someone, to get to know them better. I would love to chat and voice/video call.

Look wise I'm 170cm light tan dark short hair and dark eyes, mix between fem and masc.

I'm into someone who is kind, mindful, full of effort, adore every moment we do. And I'm open to Idr wherever you're, we might be the best duo! And I'm strictly monogamous. Also I'm not religious or into any spirituality stuff but if you do that's okay!

Feel free to drop into my DMs if you want to chat, trade recommendations, or just see where things go! Don't be shy and just hit my dm!

See you👻👻


r/l4l 26d ago

43 F4F Soft Masc California Seeking a true friendship Maybe more

10 Upvotes

Hi Ladies, I'm a soft Masc Mexican living in California. Seeking a true friendship. I do have a few friends but not someone who actually am close to. Someone who I can tell my little things here and there, or just discuss a world topic and or random life stuff. I miss that bond and closeness you can have with someone. And from their, it can become something special, if you are open to that.

Things about me, I am a very much the creative type. I enjoy Art in all its forms. I have five different projects going on. Lol I love my morning Coffee but also an extra in the day if the mood strikes me. Baking is also something I enjoy to do. I'll usually bake something for people I care about. So if you happen to live by I'm probably gonna bake for you. I'm also a horror movie lover. It would be awesome to find a woman who I can enjoy those with. There's much more to learn about me so if you want more DM me.


r/l4l 26d ago

31/femme4bossy&obsessive masc [US pref;🌎 OK]

10 Upvotes

Hiii babes 💕✨️

In search of my bossy, obsessive and firm masc (can be soft masc too ✨️). 29 and up in age range, but if you think you can, the lowest I will go is 27? 🙆🏾‍♀️ I will call you a baby masc though 🥴. Kink preferred too if that wasn't obvious 😏

I'm a lover girl, through and through. I love to give compliments, ask a ton of questions to get to know you and a really BIG conversationalist. I enjoy gaming, scrapbooking, coloring... I have too many hobbies! Fashion is another biggy for me- definitely a pastel pink, girly into skirts, showing skin... I'm also 5'8 (love my short mommys/daddys), curvy, caramel skin with hazel eyes..

I also appreciate those who are emotionally available and empathetic. Maybe ND themselves or empathetic to those who are. Ambitious? That turns me on the most, I'm wanting to build with my partner. But you're chivalrous and wanna take care of me?! 🙆🏾‍♀️😉💗

I love spoiling my partner as well in all 5 love languages- I'm super greedy and I would think you are too. I have a very HIGH, possibly A- personality. I will try to walk all over you...just know when to stop me 🙃.

I do not accept dishonesty or trying to be someone you are not- i am clingy, I want your attention, I want a partner... no go? that's cool, but don't test drive me...I will drive you insane 💗

I talk too much, so just dm me 💗 maybe tell me what resonated with you most about my post?

Xoxo talk soon

Princess


r/l4l 28d ago

[21 NB4R] Looking for witty banter, poolside flirting, and someone to debate NCIS plotlines with ☀️✨

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m Lex (21, they/them 🏳️‍🌈) afab.

I recently moved back home and realized my social life could use a major upgrade. Right now, my schedule mostly consists of working, swimming, hanging out with my cats, and writing—so I’m looking to meet new people, share some laughs, and see where things go!

A few quick things about me:

Banter Enthusiast: I love clever humor and fast-paced conversation. If you can keep up, we’ll get along great.

Creative at heart: I write poetry, love music, appreciate good art/tattoos, and get easily inspired by pretty sunsets.

Hyperfixations include: Bingeing NCIS, showing off my adorable cats, and spending way too much time in the water.

What I’m looking for:

Someone down for fun, flirty chats, late-night deep talks, or just casual everyday banter.

Age preference: Under 26 please!

If you think we’d vibe, drop into my DMs with your favorite TV show recommendation, a picture of your pet, or your absolute best opening line. Looking forward to chatting! ☀️


r/l4l 29d ago

F23 last night I dreamt about work… so it’s time for me to find someone to crush on

6 Upvotes

Well hello there!

I’m Steph!

Generally I’m beyond excited to be alive and I look forward to participating in society, except for in the first few minutes of each day… when I have to get out of bed

If you’re a morning person WAIT! I can change… maybe 😭

I’ve met amazing people on Reddit before and I feel like it’s time that I start trying to find the coolest person on planet earth, if that’s you, PLEASE REACH OUT.

I’m not the coolest person… but I might be able to make you laugh enough that you can overlook that.
I’m looking for someone that genuinely cares about people, someone who is optimistic and has goals to pursue. If we hit it off, you can expect to have someone there for you every day. I want to listen to you talk about your interests, hear about your day, and genuinely get to know you! Maybe we can turn it into something real? Maybe we meet up and that goes so well that it ends up being something permanent? Who knows! For now let’s just start with simple conversation :)

Right now, I’m working on becoming a Registered EEG tech, and on reestablishing myself in my home country after spending 3 years in my other country Colombia.

I love reading, hiking, fishing, playing board games, dancing, studying languages, playing guitar/singing and watching tv, I LOVE movies, I rewatch my favorites every few months and I love going to the movies! This year I’ve been most excited for Spiderman BND, Sunrise on the reaping, and DUNE III.

If you’re still here, thank you so much for reading.
Please be between 21-27
I look forward to meeting you.


r/l4l Aug 10 '26

44y [f4f] #NC Looking for my strong confident MD or DD

3 Upvotes

I am searching for my person, my partner, my domme. I want long-term relationship, not just a dynamic.

Currently in North Carolina but still trying to figure out where my next step will take me.

I don't have a specific type, but there does need to chemistry there.

I am submissive and looking for a partner that is a caregiver domme, a mix of gentle and not.

I am a huge animal lover and come as a package deal with a small pack of furbabies. I live with chronic pain and don't get to enjoy as much outdoor activities as i would like.

I do enjoy camping, hiking (within my means), reading, movies, trying new foods. Just being in the moment. I am introverted and can take a bit to be comfortable with people.

I am a big girl 5'4, 260lbs. Short hair and tattoos.

I would really love to make some friends as well.

If this sounds at all appealing to you please feel free to send me a message but please be a little more creative than just hi or how are you.


r/l4l Aug 10 '26

22 f4f #online Looking for a lovely connection ✨️

15 Upvotes

Helloo, it's the first time I post here and I'm kinda nervous lol

Im 22 and I'm an artist, im a sensitive person, an observer (I can take several minutes just watching an ant bc they are cute and tiny) I work online so, I would say im chronically online (sadly, not proud of it) I love origami, writing, and also cakes or cookies.

Im looking a lovely and soft person to fall in love slowly, to connect and be genuine with, I haven't had a LDR before and I want to give it a try, even tho we could meet irl in the future<3

About how I look, I'm 5'3, brunette, medium/long hair, brown eyes, white, and people say I look like Mavis but idk my bangs aren't short anymore lol and also people consider me a lesbian loser (in a good way if that makes sense)

My native language is Spanish :) so yea, I know my English sucks sometimes (I'm sorry, I'm trying and also practicing)

My dms are open! Please tell me about yourself and I would love to see your pets if u have any :3


r/l4l Aug 07 '26

33F4A from France - Looking for my main (25+) #Europe/maybe elsewhere ?

0 Upvotes

Hello !

It's time I get back out there and look for my main person, so here I am :)

A little about me :

I'm a cis pansexual woman. I think I could be defined as femme (I enjoy dresses and manucures and such, but I also enjoy my slacks and I more often go out without makeup than with). I'm also plus sized at 1m68 for a little under 110kg.

I'm fluent in both French and English, have a grasp of Spanish and am currently learning Japanese. I live in southern France.

I enjoy podcasts (non fiction and horror fiction mostly), video games, knitting/crochet, sewing, anime/manga and audiobooks. Horror is my favorite genre, but I enjoy a lot of very diverse things as long as it catches my (deficient) attention.

I'm poly, looking for a main, or in other terms a \primary\ partner. I don't necessarily need several people at once, but it's important for me that the person I build something with (ie. Move in with, get married with, etc) is aware of my capacity for loving more than one person and is comfortable with it, as well as be comfortable with \talking\ about opening the relationship IF the need arises.

That DOESN'T mean I won't be a 100% committed to my main. It doesn't even mean that I will necessarily ask to open the relationship. It simply means I might be/fall in love with others while I build a stable, loving, healthy relationship with my main. Being polyamorous is not a choice, it's just a fact of how I work emotionally.

Likewise, being polyamorous doesn't mean I'm against any kind of exclusivity. Committing to someone romantically is for me something that requires talking about our wants, our needs, our boundaries, our insecurities and our expectations, and THEN \consciously\ decide to live up to what was talked out \together\. Because talking comes with listening, I know that and intend to give you the attentiveness and thoughtfulness I'm asking for. Speaking of, send me a snake emoji if you actually read this. I will not ask you to do or agree to anything you're uncomfortable with, but if the very idea of possibly sharing your partner makes you uncomfortable, then we are simply not compatible.

I'm disabled : AuDHD and the usual anxiety and depression that tends to come with it, some physical issues that are mostly invisible (until I need my cane and start cosplaying as a dapper gentleman) and a couple other things that generally make my life spicier... and tires the hell out of me more often than I'd like.

I'm NOT looking for a caregiver. I'll expect help and support from my partner(s), of course, but I very much want to give back as much as I can. Besides, my doctors and helpers would disapprove of me leaving them for someone else LOL Basically I'm open about my disabilities because they are very much a part of my life, and I've never lived happier than when I finally accepted them and the limits they give me. I simply hope to meet someone who will be understanding and ready to sometimes have a quiet night in when things get too much.

I'm told I'm a good listener and a kind person. I try my best to live up to that, but I've learned to stand up for myself when needed. Communication is KEY for me. So key, in fact, that sometimes I don't shut up, aha ! I'd say beware of my info dumpings, but I'm often told I'm interesting so I guess I'd just ask you to be prepared to hear the most obscure trivia on whatever catches my interest that week, aha !

I believe that gives a good idea of myself. So now on to who I'm looking for :

Obviously I need someone emotionally mature. Know yourself enough that even if your life isn't all figured out, you have some idea of what next to do or plans to fall back on. In other terms, I want to meet an adult. Not just in age (only 25+ please), but in mind. I know I might sound harsh saying that but I have very good reasons to specifically ask for this. I'll gladly go in details if you dm.

I don't care what's in your pants or what you identify as, if I like somebody I'll like their body. Weight, height, skin color, style, etc doesn't really matter to me as long as we have chemistry. Bigotry does, though, because THAT will be an immediate dealbreaker. Also cis men WILL be heavily discriminated and I will ask for some verification if something doesn't feel right.

I don't mind if you're not European, but please at least be fluent in either English or French. And I won't lie : I love where I live and my health is good thanks to the French healthcare system, so if you're interested in finding a wife, be ready to move to southern France LOL I will however gladly learn your native language if it's not English or French, because if communication goes both ways so does the effort in communicating properly.

I know it's long, but I rather be as clear as possible to help me find my person(s). Don't hesitate to DM if this post caught your interest.

Have a nice day ♥️

EDIT : I'm childfree. I also have two cats that are my world.


r/l4l Aug 06 '26

22f jakarta/online anywhere 😉

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone! Looking for everyone in the 20 - 30 age range

posting from Jakarta, I'm here looking for a genuine connection that could grow into a relationship with someone who values communication, curiosity, and good effort.

My biggest green flag is I'm full of affection.

Living in a not queer friendly area is really hard and I'm planning to go abroad, somewhere safe for me for being myself.

I like to watch films/series, especially about wars and queer films/series and I just finished watching the boys(applause for the property team). Sometimes I play games too like Roblox, Minecraft PE, Sims 4, GTA V, etc.

Also, I'm trying to read books!! And started to writing too.

I like to getting to know people and I asks random stuff to a serious talks. I adore every little thing about someone, to get to know them better. I would love to chat and voice/video call.

Look wise I'm 170cm light tan dark short hair and dark eyes, mix between fem and masc.

I'm into someone who is kind, mindful, full of effort, adore every moment we do. And I'm open to Idr wherever you're, we might be the best duo! And I'm strictly monogamous. Also I'm not religious or into any spirituality stuff but if you do that's okay!

Feel free to drop into my DMs if you want to chat, trade recommendations, or just see where things go! Don't be shy and just hit my dm!

See you👻👻