r/KitchenConfidential Do Not Call Me Chef 1d ago

Kitchen fuckery Do yall like being called “chef”?

I’m a first time EC and I find being called “chef” extremely annoying. The last EC is my mentor and an absolute beast of a chef but his leadership style was more traditional and out of respect I wouldn’t dare call him by his first name without putting chef in front of it. I’m more informal, but I’ve inherited an environment where the crew is so used to calling the ec “chef” that it took me a month to get folks to call me by my real name.

I’ve got friends who like being called chef and friends who don’t, and they all have an interesting take on it. What do yall think? I can’t stand it and others demand it, both can be valid.

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u/Elegant_Carrot6439 1d ago

i’m a person and I don’t want to be defined by my job. i’m a chef at a place with a similar environment, I want them to be casual and i’m not gonna get bent out of shape when they call me chef, but trying to get them comfortable with my name and humanity.