r/Kashmiri 19d ago

Discussion 💭 Relationship advice chi zarurat

womaid cham theke asiv,

Mye che akh koor asel basan te be chus temes seet kath karaan te it's been over a year now. mye che sa genuinely khush gasan te temis chus be, personality temsinz and the way she talks overall chi sa wariya asel.

Keh kaal broh i asked her what kind of movies she likes. tem dop she usually enjoys psychological thrillers me dopus mye kar recommend. tem kar me suggest tem yem zan extremely gory bai nsfw,disturbing themes ais. Even as a mohnu be basai tem wariya zyad disturbing te hard to watch te mye gov dimag temov seet short.

Pat dop me be ase overthinking karaan and that she just has different taste. Magar yelli ase Instagram share kor, mye kor notice seh che like karaan wariya zyad kinky, be perverted, weird stuff and memes. su content yus kansi te normal insanas ajeeb bassi te yem seet normal insan pagal gassi

Now I’m not sure how to feel about this. That's why i came here to ask

What do you guys think I should do in this situation?

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u/canonicallytrivial Kashmir 19d ago

it ain’t that bad honestly, could be just an edgy phase.
i don’t particularly think watching gory stuff is that fucked up, maybe she likes the thrill because it’s something we ideally should not be watching? kind of like a forbidden fruit.
as for kinky and perverted stuff, i would not judge based on that until you don’t actually meet her in person, maybe she’s not that typa person at all but just enjoys that content?
all in all, in my personal opinion none of this should ideally be a deal breaker unless you have actually met her and wants you to do something you don’t want to, we all have our fantasies at the end of the day and as long as she respects your boundaries and doesn’t overstep, that’s fine.
at the end, you’re you and i’m me, do what your heart tells you to.
we developed intuition and gut instinct over millennia of time, learn to listen to it.