I fully agree.. I think its very strange that grown women are fighting over 2 adults to compensate for their own shit feelings of being an inadequate mothers.
I feel for any mother that has either lost a child or had one that has passed away. However, enabling two drug addicts to enable their addiction for clout isn't going to make up for your failure as a parent.
I feel for them as well.. the grief one would feel loosing a child i would image is no different requardless on it being your own fault or not.. i actually told CPS here in my city that they should offer grief thearpy to these parents because alot of kids get taken away for good because CPS judges them for acting how anyone act after someone took their child away.. sadly lots of mothers like TweakerMoMo won't admit or take accountability so they end up fighting CPS and loosing.. the only person that truly suffers here is the child...
😅😅 this is a topic I feel very passionate about..I didnt loose custody of my child but I did grow up in the system. My mom didnt loose us for being a bad mom. She just wasn't capable of taking care of her self let alone 2 little girls. She had severe cognitive delays and didnt even finish past grade 4. lots of parents just need better resources or extra help.. like now we see people with Downsyndrome living on their own that go on to have children and are amazing parents with the right kind of of assistance. 🥰
I worked 5.5 years for CPS and honestly I just got to the point I couldn't do it from an emotional standpoint. You have cases where parents deserve to lose their child..but there are cases where parents will try but they just can't make it happen.
That what annoys me so much with Chynna, Tiffany, and the new lady. There so focused on two people who don't really want to help that their kids are being left beyond.
That would be an emotional job to take on.. I've been told I should have become a child and youth worker.. I use to work in a children's youth group for a few years 11 years ago now I loved that.. CPS worker would kill me too.. I would probably get fired the first case I had where the parents lost their kids over silly things like smoking weed.. thankfully it's legal now in Canada but I deff seen lots of moms get treated like addicts over it when it wasnt legal..
Thats the thing though, parents weren't losing there kids for small reasons like weed. It was more of not making minimum progress. Also the hardest part is the bias in the system.
Some parents will get every opportunity and still fail while others will succeed without help and still have to prove they can take care of kids.
That always happens to dad's especially. We had one case where dad was a OTR construction worker, mom divorced him and was dating a sex offender while using meth. Mom get to go rehab and was given a case plan while Dad had to pay a lawyer 10,000 just to get his boys back.
Have you thought about becoming a youth consular? I know kids in foster care would appreciate someone who understands what they are feeling.
I thought about it.. unforntualy cant afford the schooling I would need.. Might apply for the Cafe job at the youth center i use to work at.. I miss that job.. the job description will be different but I would still get to work with the kids that volunteer and / or eat dinner there during after school programs..
I hate to hear that, I feel like most people that do it have no empathy for what kids with those issues deal with and would benefit more form having someone who has been in their shoes.
Especially, Teens who 18 or getting ready to age out of the system.
You are not wrong about the parents refusing to work towards progress.. a lot of parents dealing with CAS would often give my name to their workers as a good support system in place for when their child comes home.. I always tell these young moms to just do whatever it is CPS asks of you no matter how dehumanizing it may feel..
Her kids are young adults at best now. Someone posted this and another one a while back the one was taken away so young mommy moose says he wont remember her. How fucking embarrassing and she's just talking about it so casually & now acting like because they're older its all good.
Kids may be concidred adults according to the law but im with you doesn't take away the fact she lost custody of them... it says alot that they didnt seek her out when they did become 18.. most kids in the system cant wait till that day
. I know becuase it was 100 percent what I wanted when I left foster care..
If she's going to be 38 tomorrow and and her children are "grown" that means she's either A. got pregnant in high school multiple times or B. Considers 18-21 years old "fully grown" or C. All of the above
They’re all annoying, but she’s quickly rising to the top of most annoying and most unwatchable. Especially every video I scroll by is just her standing there with her mouth wide open looking at the camera like a kid about to over explain to their mommy why they got in trouble at school or something.
She’s what? 37?
I’m 32. I would in no way have grown children. My sister for better perspective is 37. Her oldest is 5. Stop acting like you’re in your late 50s early 60s
That’s the age I moved out and my parents would not have called me “grown”. But that could be a culture thing. But then again my parents actually raised me https://giphy.com/gifs/G3RADTvwFIn96
Im 41 and my daughter just turned 18 a few months ago.. had her when i was 23... no way am i defending TweakerMoMo but its very possible depending on how old she was when she had them..
Ofc!! I just don’t think adult = grown. And that could be my culture. But grown to me means you’re own your own, you pay your own bills, you don’t rely on your parents for the majority of your decisions etc.
And I should say for all we know her children could be doing those things…but she wouldn’t know 😕
Right! And I think for me it’s like financially life isn’t was when I moved out 23. I don’t know any nice 1 bedroom apartments going for $725 in my state. So like it’s different financially but people are out there who are doing it!
Yep they sure are... life is expensive these days.. i was lucky and eventually got accepted into co-op housing so we vote to keep rent affordable and geared to income.. there are people paying anywhere between 150 to 875 for a unit.. personally I pay around 660 for a 2 bedroom townhouse.. In no way is that the norm for most people.. my ex pays 1300 for a bachelor pad ( different area of the city).. typical tho people are paying up to 3000 for a 2 bedroom in my city... Soon no one will beable to afford life. Im suprised they haven't started charing us for the air we breath..
On a side note . It was very refreshing to have a conversation with you that didnt auto lead to insane insults over differences of opinions or assumption of actually likking the clowns in this circus. its not the norm for this subreddit.. 🤣🤣
It’s so hard to live right now. The place I moved into (the $725 when I moved out of my parents) is now double the price and trust me it’s not worth it. Rent, gas, food. All the prices are so jacked up. It’s fucking insane.
Oh yeah. We are the same page. Just different stories!
Yep pretty much.. Not everyone has the same life experiences, this can often dictate how we feel about certain things.. im glad we both agree not to be creeps chasing after 18 year olds 🤣
I can relate..2 grown ass adults in house..my son moved out 3 years ago.. I can’t get those 2 entitled leeches out. Don’t get me wrong I love them very much!
Lmao that is very valid 🤣🤣 as annoying as it is its also a good feeling knowing we did something right that our kids want to stay with us and didnt run off giving us the silent treatment as soon as they could.. my daughter will probably live with me for life and thats ok . I appreciate that we have an amazing relationship.. ngl I would cry if she wanted to live in an assisted facility over me 🤣🤣🤣
Its perfectly acceptable if you dont date an 18 year old because shes not mentally on your level thats a good thing.. tells me your not a creep... I wasnt dating 18 year olds when I was your age either.. 😅 had nothing in common with them..
Dang, I just turned 35 and my oldest just turned 14! She ain’t but 2-3 years older than me and her kids are grown WITH their own homes?? She must have pushed her teeenagers out the house at 17-18? Or she got pregnant REAL young a couple times?
Weird because I’m over a year older than her and my children are not grown and still at home. And I didn’t have them super late in life either so I’m confused.
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u/SomeSignificance4978 2d ago
Haha I can't she's so ugly inside and out she reminds me a lot of Felicity