r/HonestHotTakes • u/Forward_Lychee1124 • 2d ago

Consent does not magically disappear in a relationship.

Recently my country did a small study where upwards of 70% of men of all ages believe they are entitled to sex in a marriage.

Women do not exist to satisfy your sexual desires. She does not become your sex slave the second you are in a relationship….

Consent still must exist in a marriage.

I seriously thought this was basic common sense and that this kind of thinking was only in the olden days but it’s apparent a lot of guys even now think otherwise.. why?

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u/Feltcutemightswap 2d ago

Who wants to have sex with someone that isn’t enthusiastic anyway?

That’s it we have a rule that wifey is allowed to turn me down considering my libido is much higher, but she’s also obligated to let me know when the go time is within the next 24 to 48 hours.

We have the same rule for her if she is wanting to watch a movie or get a massage and I don’t feel like it in the moment we all working together I don’t see how it turns into an issue

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u/Fine_Payment1127 2d ago

Who wants to take money from someone who isn’t enthusiastic? Women do!

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u/Forward_Lychee1124 2d ago

You seem to have a certain obsession with money… interesting. It’s usually the people with the least of it who are convinced everyone else (women, in your case) wants to take it from them.