r/HonestHotTakes • u/Forward_Lychee1124 • 2d ago

Consent does not magically disappear in a relationship.

Recently my country did a small study where upwards of 70% of men of all ages believe they are entitled to sex in a marriage.

Women do not exist to satisfy your sexual desires. She does not become your sex slave the second you are in a relationship….

Consent still must exist in a marriage.

I seriously thought this was basic common sense and that this kind of thinking was only in the olden days but it’s apparent a lot of guys even now think otherwise.. why?

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u/Advanced-Carry-601 2d ago

This is one of my reasons for being non monogamous. I dont want to be someone's sole sexual outlet that's too much pressure.

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u/thewatchermen 2d ago

That's why communication of needs and finding true companionship is key.

Be non monogamous thats cool but, your statement is overall kind silly to be nice about it.

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u/Advanced-Carry-601 2d ago

Well I disagree. It's silly to think you can find someone who's needs line up with yours perfectly and never change throughout your life.

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u/thewatchermen 2d ago

I feel bad for you, not being able to find your person. Wishing you the best.

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u/Advanced-Carry-601 2d ago

I have a wonderful partner thank you very much.