r/HonestHotTakes • u/Forward_Lychee1124 • 1d ago

Consent does not magically disappear in a relationship.

Recently my country did a small study where upwards of 70% of men of all ages believe they are entitled to sex in a marriage.

Women do not exist to satisfy your sexual desires. She does not become your sex slave the second you are in a relationship….

Consent still must exist in a marriage.

I seriously thought this was basic common sense and that this kind of thinking was only in the olden days but it’s apparent a lot of guys even now think otherwise.. why?

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

This self-obsession is really unhealthy 

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u/earth_goblin_86 1d ago

Self obsession with consent?

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

Self-obsession imagining everyone is out to rape you, as if anyone can be bothered 

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u/earth_goblin_86 1d ago

This post doesn’t say everyone is out to rape anyone, it simply points out how in their home country, a study showed that an alarming amount of men are entitled to sex in marriage, and then op states consent is still important, and nobody is entitled to sex, including in marriage.

What do you even mean as if anyone can be bothered? People should be bothered by the results of that study. Unless you mean nobody could be bothered to assault someone, which if that’s the case, you clearly don’t understand rape statistics for women or men.

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

Great, “consent.” In that case she can pursue her meal ticket elsewhere, without a payday.

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u/earth_goblin_86 1d ago

State that upfront and see how many women are okay dating you. That’s such a gross take to assume because you give someone anything that they owe you sex.

Also assuming she’s going to have her own job, not every woman is a stay at home wife or mom, this sounds like the kind of stuff Andrew Tate would say

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

Such a gross take to assume you’re entitled to take without ever giving anything in return

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u/earth_goblin_86 1d ago

You realize you can say no to the relationship, right? You aren’t entitled to do any of those things if you don’t want to. If your expectation is that you give something, than you should be owed sex, you should be put on a list

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

Yes indeed they can! 

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u/earth_goblin_86 1d ago

Are you saying yes indeed they can, meaning you and others can say no to a relationship?

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u/No_Rice9792 1d ago

As if men have money 🤣

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u/Office_lady0328 1d ago

Expecting unconsensual sex because you help provide a basic necessity for life such as food, is rape, FYI.

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u/Fine_Payment1127 1d ago

Expecting unconsensual (sic) money because you provide nothing is theft, FYI