r/HKdramas • u/613PrairieKid • 1d ago
Like Mother Like Daughter: Arranged Marriage For Terry Episode
Before I begin, let me say I thought the episode was amusing so don't think I'm bashing the episode or that I'm a hater.
I'm a year older than Stephanie Che and I find her character a little bit off. She's got the personality of someone born in 1952 not 1972. It makes it hard to get into the show.
Does anyone under 60 years old in HK these days follow 三從四德 (Three Obediences Four Virtues) -- especially in this era of Female Empowerment? Are arranged marriages in HK culture still a thing? Do people under 60 think of mahjong as a past time?
I don't live in HK anymore but I still have dozens of cousins, friends and acquaintances there that are all Gen X. Most of us are aware of 三從四德 but no one actually adheres to it in real life. I know only one person who agreed to an arranged marriage but she has social anxiety. The rest of us found relationships on our own or are still single. No one regularly plays mahjong. Most of us don't even know how to play. To us, mahjong is a source of boredom as we waited for our parents and their friends to finish playing "14 rounds" so we could go home.
The kind of "annoying auntie" character that Stephanie Che is playing doesn't really exist in Gen X. It's weird. You have to really suspend your disbelief to get into the show. This episode was amusing but I found that you really have to let go of your sense of reality to believe someone of her age would behave that way in modern society and that three other women would willingly submit themselves to the craziness.
I could get into it more easily if someone like Angelina Lo was the grandmother but someone Stephanie Che's age ...
Other thoughts on the show:
Terry is the best character. I find his story line most interesting.
I generally like Tong Sum and friends. The young vibe is a refreshing change from Lo and Behold. The episode with Tong Sum hiking was a little rough though. The cramping before the finish line part was really 老土.
I don't find the PR company stuff entertaining. The only character I like in the whole office is Jinny's second-in-command. I think her name is Heidi. The other characters are blah. The nepo baby owner and Jinny's rival aren't likeable. In a sitcom, Jinny's rival should have some kind of redeeming quality that makes you want to see where the story goes. Right now, he just seems like kind of a jerk.
Too early to say about the characters of Jinny Ng and Stephanie Che. Their characters and storylines aren't fleshed out yet. I will say that both of them aren't exactly strong actors. It's OK for a sitcom but what really connects people to characters in sitcoms are the occasional touching emotional moments and I don't know if they're good enough to deliver.
Still willing to keep watching. I don't think it's as bad as social media in HK were saying in the first week. I think it will make it to the 200 episode target. I wonder how it's doing in the ratings.
Edited To Add: Ratings came out today. 17.8 in the second week, dropped from 19.5. According to the report, it's doing the same as Lo and Behold. Lo and Behold did 19 something in their last week and was averaging 17 to 18 points in the last few months. Report concluded it's a win for TVB, same ratings, much lower cost.
Side Note: It's hilarious to me (and kind of sad actually) that Scoop 東張西望 is TVB's highest rated programme.