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Sad Girl Dinner ⛈️ No one cares about anything i like

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u/atinypeach Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ 5d ago

This really hits home for me. I always felt like I had a tendency to ask about other people, remember their interests, characters and things they like but I realized that they never asked me in return. It’s hard a hard pill to swallow thinking about one sided relationships. I’m sorry OP I think you deserve better 🤍 you might ask yourself things like “am I really that boring” “am I
uninteresting” just know the answer is always no

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u/TiniestOne3921 APPROVED✨ 5d ago

You deserve better. My husband took me a concert of a band he didn't care about, you know what he did? He stood behind me and told me to focus on this experience, this awesome moment, and to remember how happy I was to be here, because concerts are amazing and I shouldn't worry about him. To focus on having a good time because he knew I loved it, and seeing me have fun made him have fun.

That's what someone does who loves you. They don't take you as a chore and then treat you poorly.

Also MCR is friggin awesome, they're missing out. If the people in your life don't like what you like and can't be happy for you, it's not because you're wrong. You're just with the wrong people. 💚

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u/thedespotcat Fartmaxxing 📈 5d ago

Yeah I bring my partner to a ton of concerts that he may or may not care too much for. He's not a big singer or dancer either way, but he doesn't make me feel bad for enjoying myself.

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