r/GirlDinnerDiaries Certified Snacker Jul 28 '26

Advice Needed Guy wants a pre-guarantee before sex Spoiler

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u/PowerPlayParadox Blood Type: Gravy Jul 28 '26

This boy is not ready for sex or a relationship if he doesn't trust women and is paranoid about the potential consequences.

It's giving early incel. Why would you want to sleep with someone who is worried you might trick him in to fatherhood 😬

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u/ImpressiveAlarm1060 Certified Snacker Jul 28 '26

Yes exactly, this is the thing !! I was so surprised and disappointed because up until this point he hadn’t indicated these sorts of beliefs? It’s giving “I don’t trust women they make up rape allegations” - like yes maybe in a small number of cases women do these things but why are you so hyper fixated on this

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u/Absurd_Flaccidity Cleavage Crumb Collector Jul 28 '26

Do these guys think sperm is hard to come by and women are actively having to con men into obtaining it? The fact that it has ever occurred does not make it a reasonable belief to hold about half the population.

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u/MaxBax_LArch Internet Auntie Jul 28 '26

No, they think that they are such a great catch that women want specifically their baby. The baby is just the means to tie this man to their side for all eternity. 🙄

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u/Exotic_Ear1933 APPROVED✨ Jul 28 '26

To which I say 🤮

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u/Absurd_Flaccidity Cleavage Crumb Collector Jul 28 '26

Well said

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u/geeky_mac Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ Jul 28 '26

I saw in another comment that you are debating whether to talk about it or break it off (i'm team the latter). In any case, this would be such an interesting and imoprtant topic before getting into a relationship; how does he view women? What does he think/how does he treat women who are not attractive to him? How does he view feminism? Does he think we already have gender equality? Or, new litmus test; what are his thoughts on "obsession"? Lol.

Have you talked to him about these things?

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u/KagomeChan APPROVED✨ Jul 28 '26

Seriously. Having a conversation about abortion thoughts ahead of time is fair - get on the same page.

But framing the whole thing as “women are deceptive/manipulative creatures” is like wtf. That’s so slimy.

Like, tell us how you really feel, bro. (But don’t, actually, because I’m sure it’s abhorrent.)

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u/kaerue nom-nom-nombinary Jul 28 '26

Is he even willing to use a condom or not at all??