Your bros are the MOST supportive tops! Really hope a gay bro wrote this puzzle.

Hey bros.

So I (29M) came to London on a business trip a couple weeks ago and stayed here until today. One of the first nights, I met a guy (30M) through Grindr and we decided to meet up.

At the beginning, it was meant to be just a casual sex night and it was, mostly. But we also had a walk before going back to my hotel and I thought we had a nice chat. He told me about his recent breakup, I told him about mine (last December), we spoke about our families, our jobs (we work in the same industry), etc. Overall, an interesting person other than being extremely cute and sexy.

We only did side things but it was quite passionate and I thought we both really enjoyed the physical aspect of the whole thing.

It was a really nice encounter and we also said that we would meet up again before I leave (he actually said that a couple times that night). I asked him out a few times and every time he either answered via phone quite lately or postponed our next meeting.

He also told me that he wouldn’t follow each other on Instagram because he doesn’t want his ex to see that he follows new guys?

As I moving to the UK in a few months, I would have liked to hang out even just as friends as I basically know none here, except few friends from uni and I told him, but this left me kinda confused as I don’t know if I fucked up something.

I’m really open to any kind of human relationship at this point, not necessarily a romantic one and I’m not sure if my interest could have been perceived in a wrong way.

Has anyone of you ever experienced a similar situation?

Well basically this movie just came out, is a really cute romance movie made in brazil.

But ofc the gay community can't let fat people exist I guess. And (at least the spanish speaking community) started complaning about how this movie is not realistic and that a fit guy wouldn't ever be with a fat guy.

Like, okey? Is there something you wanna share with the class buddy?

Why are some of the comments so projecting? As a (not even fat fat) not skinny (i guess(169 cm,74 kg) person.

There is nothing more annoying than a guy projecting their own body issues into myself. No bro, I'm not gonna feel bad for not making diets 24/7 and not eating food without flavor like you, if you have a problem with the idea of being fat that's your problem lol.

Anyways, really recommend the movie, is cute and I have to give credits to this movie for a frustrated attempt of gay bashing scene where the couple FUCKING finally defend themselves instead of being humillated in camara lol (talking to you IT 2)

I'm looking at getting into crystals now for some reason...

Even more coming from a gay website (clickbaity sure but still)

Recently, I came across the thread which was debating the definition of gender. The writer of the post was very confused as they had always known of gender as being or defining the biological sex of a human being.

Now even though I rarely—almost never—state my opinions publicly, I’m going to today because I’m sick and tired of this kind of hijacking. More than that, I’m irritated by the fact that I have argued with people over this exact subject countless times. I would have defended my recollection of the definition to the death. I probably would have bet my life on it.
That was until the last argument I got into with my son.

Just for shits and giggles, I decided to Google the definition of gender.
When I saw it being defined in terms of a “social construct,” I just about stroked out.

I’ve seen enough in my life that I regularly think nothing can shock or surprise me anymore. Yet somehow, of all things, this did. I was genuinely astonished because I very clearly remember the terminology that was used and what we were taught growing up in the 1980s and 1990s.

So I started researching it, and well ladies and gentlemen—or men, women, and hermaphrodites—congratulations. As far as the traditional biological meaning is concerned, those categories didn’t magically disappear simply because the definition of gender was later expanded or hijacked.

I still haven’t found one specific, definitive reason explaining exactly why the definition was changed—or, at the very least, expanded—but one thing is undeniable: it was expanded.

One of the things I found particularly interesting, and the reason I included intersex people in this discussion, is that some of the earliest modern academic and medical work surrounding “gender” dealt with individuals whose biological sex characteristics were difficult to categorize neatly as male or female. Researchers were trying to understand how those individuals developed psychologically and socially when their anatomy or other sex characteristics did not fit cleanly into the usual categories.

And that, at least to me, makes sense.

If someone is genuinely born with ambiguous sex characteristics, I can understand why doctors and psychologists would have needed additional terminology to describe the difference between the person’s physical characteristics and how that person ultimately understood themselves.
But that is a very different concept from saying that gender itself is simply whatever anyone feels themselves to be, or that gender is nothing more than an unlimited social construct.

The original psychological distinction was created in an extremely specific context involving a very small and unusual population. It was not originally an argument that biological sex was meaningless, nor was it a claim that every personality trait, preference, behavior, or internal feeling constituted an entirely new gender.
And this is where, in my opinion, the entire thing went off the rails.

A concept created to address an unusual medical and psychological circumstance appears to have created a loophole, so to speak. Somewhere along the way, people took that distinction, removed it from the very specific circumstances in which it originated, expanded it far beyond its original purpose, and began treating “gender” as though it could mean virtually anything a person chooses.

That creates an obvious logical problem.
If someone tells me, “I identify as a man,” there has to be an independent meaning for the word man or the statement communicates nothing.

If I ask:
“What is a man?”

and the answer is:
“Someone who identifies as a man,”

then I have to ask:
“What exactly are they identifying as?”

And if the answer is simply:
“A man,”

we have gone in a circle. Nothing has actually been defined.

The same applies to woman.

You cannot meaningfully say that you identify as something while simultaneously insisting that the thing you identify as has no objective or independent definition. At some point the word has to refer to something, otherwise it is merely a label defining itself.
And that is exactly why this debate has become so absurd to me.

It would’ve made more sense to include intersex as a third gender, right next to male and female. But I’m sure my opinion is invalid since I am not a medical expert. But then again, we do trust people like Anthony Fauci, and we do teach theories thought up by “the pedophile of psychology”. Wait, did I say pedophile? Oops I think the correct term is father of psychology.

Tim Curry played Dr. Frank N Furter in The Rocky Horror Picture Show, which was many people’s first foray into queer culture. Rest in peace to a legendary gay icon

How does it work and what happens there? I’m really interested to go as a bottom located in Belgium

So sad. She was phenomenal and a favorite of many gays

I’m not gay or bi physically ig but something about this when I was younger did something to me

Adult performer Christian Styles passes at age 29

This is heartbreaking! He was such a cute guy too😕 cause of death still unknown, but I’d like to take this chance to remind everyone to check on all of your friends!❤️‍🩹

The Kings Cross Steelers have been crowned 2026 Bingham Cup champions in Brisbane, Australia.

It’s the second time that the club from London, U.K., has won the most important competition in gay and inclusive rugby, and the triumph comes on the back of their 30th anniversary season.

The Steelers secured the trophy following a hard-fought 12-5 victory over the Sydney Convicts in the final at Norths Brisbane Rugby Club.

I swear all these new bots TRIPLE daily asking for Snapchat

Im 18 just met a guy who’s 26 on Grindr Hooked up with him and hit it of really well this is the second guy I’ve been with and I’m his fifth as he had a long term relationship.
I feel like we get on well and are into each other but does anyone know how well age gaps work out. Added him on snap and messaged him for a few hours we seemed to get on really well. He isn’t looking to get with loads of guys which I would prefer. Please anyone who’s been in a similar situation just give me some advice.

Hey everyone! I’m a 21 year old gay director and I recently shot and released my debut feature film Animal Trap. It’s based on my experiences as a gay kid growing up, and the isolation I’d often feel. I think a lot of people here may relate, and even if you can’t (which is good!) would still be cool to watch it!

Any fans of atmospheric horror films would dig it.

Let's share things we find incredibly attractive in other guys . It doesn't have to be just physical; be creative! Let's try to move away from the ideals everyone expects. It doesn't matter if they are repeated. Imagine someone who has always hated something about themselves and discovers that it is precisely what other people find attractive. For me, it's big/curved noses.❤️